In sub frenzy, the stupid decisions of the sub, result in the sub getting hurt. In Dom frenzy, the stupid decisions of the Dom, result in the sub getting hurt.
Why I adopt such an aggressive defensive posture to attacks upon me and mine.
If you want a full-time sub, then start by being a full-time Dom.
Sometimes people wonder why.
Being a Service Top/Dom without seeming like a Service Top/Dom
Some of the things I am and do, because I am Dominant.
What is a Submissive? There is simply no way to define the exact nature of submission or the true nature of a submissive.
If these traits make my Dominance fake, then so be it.
Two types of Dom Space
Building Trust Within a BDSM Relationship
Some think that a slave has no needs; that once a slave becomes owned he or she has all he or she will ever need. There are many things that a slave needs.
Recently I had an interesting experience with a wannabees slave. I write all of this for you all to realize what hazards there are out there when you are looking for an in-home slave/sub.
What is a Dominant's moral obligation to his or her slave?
Some negotiation questions I use as a top to better learn about my bottoms, their character, and their interest in play.
The ways in which I spot an extreme submissive who is not aware of what she is yet.
Many profoundly submissive women come to us saying that their master does not control them enough
A girl who identifies herself as a slave, married to a vanilla man, asked me whether it is still possible for her to find a dominant to control her. This is my reply to her.
Understanding what a profound dominant is is easy. It simply means that someone's control fetish is so extreme as to define their entire personality, making it impossible for them to have any fulfilling intimate relationships other than slavery.
Submissives sometimes wonder whether a dominant without profound control needs of his own can learn to control them.
The motivation and consequences of a submissive's misbehavior in a permanent, absolute M/s relationship.
A profound submissive has many needs and seeks comfort and domination in specific ways.
What do dominants gain from submissives beyond sexual satisfaction and an outlet for dominance? Turns out, a lot.
Not every Dominant is a good dominant. There are a few things to watch for when seeking the good ones, though.
Breaking up is hard to do, BDSM breakups and rebounds are really, really hard to do. To sum it up in one phrase, I’d have to say “DAMN THAT HURTS”.
Getting people thinking about the ethics of playing with new/young submissives, but not as a definitive guide to how it should be done, placing a lot of emphasis on the Dominant mindset.