No who others say you are
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
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No who others say you are
"Shame means ‘I am bad' while guilt means ‘I did something bad'. Within the BDSM lifestyle, we can come across and work through shame on several fronts. Feb 25, 2020
A clear definition of protocol within the BDSM community - "a set of governing rules that dictate the body, behavior and attitudes through an enforced code of behavior and/or rituals whether it be within the confines of a particular group, community, or interpersonal dynamic".
esmay presents two chats about How D/s Can Help Confidence and Self Esteem September 1st, 2019
An allegory of care.
What is your partner's love language?
Rules for a dynamic
What makes a good top and bottom?
Addressing some of the primary issues in a long distance BDSM relationship.
We have a need to be in a community for a variety of reasons.
An analogy for predation.
How do you balance vanilla life and kink; what do you do when life gets in the way?
Just remember when you're ignoring her, you're teaching her to live without you.
Communication is the gravest of matters
Stop with entitlement and move to responsibility.
My love (as a man) is not your love (as a woman).
You don't get to submit - or dominate - only when you're in the mood.
I also said when not if, could it be an if at all?
The 6th amendment and the BDSM/kink/fetish community (aka sexual minorities)
Need and trust in D/s.
How D/s relationships deal with that pesky thing called "the real world."
Spotting a Narcissist
Lots of people ask me: How do I make my LDR work
The purpose of a woman is breeding.
What to do when it ends.