Other Results: 1 Series
Stories
Be Yourself by Sinistar , KinkyInTheMiddle Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

No who others say you are


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1338 Read Count: 249
[Report This] Published: 02/19/2020 Updated: 06/04/2020
Summary:

"Shame means ‘I am bad' while guilt means ‘I did something bad'. Within the BDSM lifestyle, we can come across and work through shame on several fronts. Feb 25, 2020


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3167 Read Count: 428
[Report This] Published: 04/18/2020 Updated: 04/18/2020
Perceiving Protocols by reflectedtruths Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A clear definition of protocol within the BDSM community - "a set of governing rules that dictate the body, behavior and attitudes through an enforced code of behavior and/or rituals whether it be within the confines of a particular group, community, or interpersonal dynamic".     


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 728 Read Count: 538
[Report This] Published: 04/24/2019 Updated: 01/14/2020
Summary:

esmay presents two chats about How D/s Can Help Confidence and Self Esteem September 1st, 2019    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics, The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 10514 Read Count: 17
[Report This] Published: 09/17/2019 Updated: 09/17/2019
The loving predator by DominantMan78 Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

An allegory of care.


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 755 Read Count: 504
[Report This] Published: 12/30/2018 Updated: 07/07/2019
Summary:

What is your partner's love language?


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 963 Read Count: 352
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 07/07/2019
Rules To Live By by reflectedtruths Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Rules for a dynamic


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 611 Read Count: 352
[Report This] Published: 05/05/2019 Updated: 06/30/2019
Summary:

What makes a good top and bottom?


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 865 Read Count: 532
[Report This] Published: 02/10/2019 Updated: 06/30/2019
Living Hard by reflectedtruths Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Addressing some of the primary issues in a long distance BDSM relationship.


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 985 Read Count: 330
[Report This] Published: 05/05/2019 Updated: 06/01/2019
Commit to Community by reflectedtruths Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

We have a need to be in a community for a variety of reasons.


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 651 Read Count: 410
[Report This] Published: 05/04/2019 Updated: 06/01/2019
The Maginot Line by dinodaddy Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

An analogy for predation.


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 711 Read Count: 592
[Report This] Published: 12/28/2018 Updated: 05/05/2019
Brokering Balance by reflectedtruths Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

How do you balance vanilla life and kink; what do you do when life gets in the way?


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 339 Read Count: 339
[Report This] Published: 05/04/2019 Updated: 05/05/2019
The Silent Treatment by delightfulsubgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Just remember when you're ignoring her, you're teaching her to live without you.


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 888 Read Count: 601
[Report This] Published: 12/29/2018 Updated: 04/17/2019
The duty of communication by DominantMan78 Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

 Communication is the gravest of matters    


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 782 Read Count: 548
[Report This] Published: 12/30/2018 Updated: 02/24/2019
Summary:

Stop with entitlement and move to responsibility.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1206 Read Count: 708
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/24/2019
My Love is not Your Love by M010N L4BE Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

My love (as a man) is not your love (as a woman).    


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 837 Read Count: 584
[Report This] Published: 12/30/2018 Updated: 02/24/2019
Summary:

You don't get to submit - or dominate - only when you're in the mood.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 568 Read Count: 650
[Report This] Published: 02/10/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:

I also said when not if, could it be an if at all?


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1018 Read Count: 470
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:

The 6th amendment and the BDSM/kink/fetish community (aka sexual minorities)


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 578 Read Count: 710
[Report This] Published: 12/24/2018 Updated: 02/04/2019
The unlimited by DominantMan78 Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Need and trust in D/s.


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 607 Read Count: 437
[Report This] Published: 12/30/2018 Updated: 01/12/2019
Reality Check by instructor144 Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

How D/s relationships deal with that pesky thing called "the real world."    


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1654 Read Count: 482
[Report This] Published: 12/16/2018 Updated: 01/12/2019
Spotting a Narcissist by delightfulsubgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Spotting a Narcissist


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1895 Read Count: 697
[Report This] Published: 12/29/2018 Updated: 01/12/2019
Summary:

Lots of people ask me: How do I make my LDR work


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 95 Read Count: 656
[Report This] Published: 12/24/2018 Updated: 01/08/2019
What Nature Intended by A Traditional Man Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The purpose of a woman is breeding.


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 365 Read Count: 597
[Report This] Published: 12/16/2018 Updated: 01/04/2019
Summary:

What to do when it ends.


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 747 Read Count: 525
[Report This] Published: 12/23/2018 Updated: 01/04/2019
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