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Other Results: 1 Series
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Summary:

Ms Monster talks in chat about those Kinky Books You Should Read, both fiction and non-fiction. 8/5/20


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM and the Media, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2551 Read Count: 835
[Report This] Published: 09/19/2020 Updated: 09/19/2020
Summary:

How to move forward after a dynamic ends.


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2357 Read Count: 448
[Report This] Published: 02/19/2020 Updated: 08/14/2020
Summary:

To teach or train, to make a convert of, more directly to make a disciple of. It is an action made in the interest of order, rule, or control    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 574 Read Count: 358
[Report This] Published: 01/22/2020 Updated: 08/14/2020
Summary:

Things to remember around submissives that are not in your dynamic.


Categories: Submission, The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1350 Read Count: 428
[Report This] Published: 06/04/2020 Updated: 08/14/2020
Summary:

A view from both sides of the slash


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1630 Read Count: 372
[Report This] Published: 02/20/2020 Updated: 08/14/2020
Summary:

German BDSM sex workers come in many flavors but two are similar - the classic Domina and the Bizarrelady. Lady Velvet Steel explains the differences. 


Categories: The Lifestyle > Professionals
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 917 Read Count: 401
[Report This] Published: 03/12/2020 Updated: 06/04/2020
Summary:

Finding rituals and tasks in D/s dynamics


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1092 Read Count: 260
[Report This] Published: 02/20/2020 Updated: 06/04/2020
Summary:

A professional Domina offers her thoughts and training on how a submissive or bottom should beg for her favor.


Categories: Submission, The Lifestyle > Professionals
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1346 Read Count: 452
[Report This] Published: 03/12/2020 Updated: 06/04/2020
Be Yourself by Sinistar , KinkyInTheMiddle Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

No who others say you are


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1338 Read Count: 249
[Report This] Published: 02/19/2020 Updated: 06/04/2020
About Punishment by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Punishment is one of those areas which is not what it seems. Before you can develop tools or methods of punishment you have to look at the concepts behind the issue itself.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1354 Read Count: 255
[Report This] Published: 01/22/2020 Updated: 06/04/2020
Summary:

tarryn{MHK} and kissa divide and discuss punishment and play punishment - funishment. 


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, General, Lifestyle Info, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2831 Read Count: 638
[Report This] Published: 04/26/2020 Updated: 06/03/2020
Summary:

The negative stigmas and stereotypes surrounding BDSM and how we can address them. 2/10/20    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3359 Read Count: 577
[Report This] Published: 06/03/2020 Updated: 06/03/2020
Summary:

April 22, 2020 emily leads a discussion on vetting partners and why.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3433 Read Count: 410
[Report This] Published: 04/22/2020 Updated: 04/22/2020
Summary:

Kajira kissa explains and demonstrates the magic mirror method of finding your own beauty and grace while serving online. April 21, 2020.


Categories: Submission > Self Training, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics, On and Off Gor > Kajirae > Serves
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, Gor, Online
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 5783 Read Count: 411
[Report This] Published: 04/22/2020 Updated: 04/22/2020
Summary:

"Shame means ‘I am bad' while guilt means ‘I did something bad'. Within the BDSM lifestyle, we can come across and work through shame on several fronts. Feb 25, 2020


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3167 Read Count: 428
[Report This] Published: 04/18/2020 Updated: 04/18/2020
Summary:

The Garden is a medium to high protocol chatroom. kissa discusses what that means. April 5, 2020


Categories: Online D/s > Protocol, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General, How-To, Protocol
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4404 Read Count: 483
[Report This] Published: 04/17/2020 Updated: 04/17/2020
Summary:

3/18/20 Song Yung discusses Sincerity vs Red Flags in budding BDSM and D/s relationships.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3175 Read Count: 442
[Report This] Published: 03/26/2020 Updated: 04/17/2020
Summary:

Ms Monster offers insite on purchasing different BDSM tools and toys. 4/1/20 


Categories: The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics, How-To > Equipment > Clips and Clamps, How-To > Equipment > Sex Toys, How-To > Equipment > Whips
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To, Sex Toys
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 5846 Read Count: 442
[Report This] Published: 04/09/2020 Updated: 04/17/2020
Summary:

What is a fetish. Sept 9, 2019 by lionheartedsub


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 547 Read Count: 430
[Report This] Published: 04/17/2020 Updated: 04/17/2020
Summary:

Signalling erotic intent with clothing. April 15, 2020 by kissa and little dragon


Categories: How-To > A Trip to the Dungeon, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: Fetish, For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 5663 Read Count: 634
[Report This] Published: 04/17/2020 Updated: 04/17/2020
Summary:

Pet play as a fetish Feb 19, 2020 by kissa


Categories: The Lifestyle > Pets and Animals, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2324 Read Count: 399
[Report This] Published: 02/21/2020 Updated: 03/08/2020
Summary:

Ethical polyamory, hosted by Serrian 2/23/20


Categories: The Lifestyle > Not the Typical Het, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3043 Read Count: 389
[Report This] Published: 02/23/2020 Updated: 03/08/2020
Summary:

BDSM 101 chat with Sinistar on Feb 18, 2020 on what D-types do.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics, Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3166 Read Count: 298
[Report This] Published: 02/21/2020 Updated: 03/08/2020
Summary:

CNC, rape, ravishment, and resistance play - what are differences, how and why they are done. Sunday Feb 16 topic discussion. 


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Other Interesting Play, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Non-Consent
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 5334 Read Count: 7
[Report This] Published: 02/19/2020 Updated: 03/08/2020
Summary:

Dec 1, 2019 UnrulyNerdGirl talks about what the difference between ageplay and DD/lg.


Categories: Dominance > Daddy & Mommy Dom/mes, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics, Submission > Being a Little
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 9782 Read Count: 457
[Report This] Published: 02/21/2020 Updated: 03/08/2020
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