Scene speech is a language that we develop and use solely in-scene. We reserve this speech to augment and accentuate the atmosphere of the scene and often to heighten the sensory experience for both Dominant and submissive.
An introduction to spanking
the attention that one pays to the way they hold their arms behind their back can reveal a great deal about how important their current task is and how much attention they are paying to themselves and their dominant.
How can I ask for cuddling and not have a guy think I'm offering something sexual?
Some deep thoughts on how to consciously create intimate connections with other people.
Inexpensive Romance
A list and description of household staff and their duties
A how-to in cleaning up
The dominatrix basics for first timers.
A light hearted guide to filling a kinky toybox on a budget.
Or...be all you can be in the bedroom.
The keys to open up some pretty wild doors
He did it, and you can too!
Ignore at your own peril: get your man hot for you!
How to become VERY popular.
Read this with your lady & you'll thank the author.
Learning how to get a Dominant's/submissive's attention takes patience, practice, and restraint.
The dangers of yanking on hair.
This is a short instructional about how I came to love anal sex. Sharing my own experiences, I hope to persuade and advise on "why" and "how" a person can give anal a second chance.
Giving younger guys some advice on better sexual relationships with women.
Just before orgasm, stretching a man's testicles causes a prolonged and much more intense orgasm than normal. How-To.
The key to proper testicle function and health is better blood circulation to the testicles. This article explains how to increase a higher-level blood circulation to his testicles to promote all round better function and health. An added side benefit to the ideas discussed below is intense orgasms on his part.
Melanoma is an increasingly common form of life-threatening cancer, usually found on the skin, and known for its early and rapid tendency to spread to other organs. Melanoma is frequently found on the back -- a location often whipped during SM play. The back is also a location not easy for a person to examine themselves. Studies have shown that manipulation of a melanoma (and a whip stroke, spank, or other type of blow would, obviously, be a form of "manipulation") definitely increases the number of cancer cells that break off and begin to spread to other parts of the body. It is therefore essential that SM practitioners know how to spot possible melanomas, both on themselves and on their partners, to avoid whipping or otherwise disturbing melanomas, and to receive early, definitive medical diagnosis and treatment.
This text has been prepared by an M.D. with a personal and professional interest in D/s. It covers topics such as safer sex, preventing and treating injury, and psychological safety. It is offered freely to the D/s community in the hopes of assisting others to find joy and fulfillment in a safe and sane environment.
Is a safeword really a good safety measure? And another question: how safe is a safeword? And finally: isn't the BDSM community just a bunch of parrots, all repeating the same dogmas over and over again?