My acronym for aftercare is SHOCK
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Categories: How-To > Aftercare
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Categories: How-To > Aftercare
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Completed: Yes Word count: 198 Read Count: 472
[Report This] Published: 12/19/2018 Updated: 08/11/2019
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Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
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How can you tell if a man is dominant in a few conversations?
Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
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[Report This] Published: 05/05/2019 Updated: 08/11/2019
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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One of the most frequent questions I get is, first, what is a Bootblack. The second most frequent question is, why do we do it.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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[Report This] Published: 06/20/2019 Updated: 08/11/2019
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
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The do's and Dont's for that first time spanking.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
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[Report This] Published: 06/01/2019 Updated: 08/11/2019
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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Why am I attracted to bootblacking.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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[Report This] Published: 06/20/2019 Updated: 08/11/2019
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Categories: How-To > Equipment > Clips and Clamps
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Definitions using an open clothespin diagram.
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[Report This] Published: 06/28/2019 Updated: 07/07/2019
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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"What's a Bootblack?"
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[Report This] Published: 06/20/2019 Updated: 07/07/2019
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sensation
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Often in this community, you'll hear bandied about such terms as "sensory deprivation" and "sensation play". But what are they? Are they different, and if so, how? I'm going to attempt to unpack these two terms a little, and elaborate in detail, where in the past, I've mostly only heard vague references.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sensation
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[Report This] Published: 04/24/2019 Updated: 07/07/2019
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Categories: How-To > Equipment > Impact Tools
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From USENET - On Cane Making
Categories: How-To > Equipment > Impact Tools
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[Report This] Published: 06/28/2019 Updated: 07/07/2019
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Categories: Dominance
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Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General, How-To
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First time Topping: how to start off right.
Categories: Dominance
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Completed: Yes Word count: 2559 Read Count: 584
[Report This] Published: 06/01/2019 Updated: 07/07/2019
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Categories: The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Mind Fucks
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by Ms Monster on 7/3/19 Orgasm Tease and Denial
Categories: The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Mind Fucks
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[Report This] Published: 07/03/2019 Updated: 07/07/2019
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Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
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Many things need to be taken in to consideration about marking.
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[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 06/30/2019
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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The protocol for approaching a Bootblack and having a shine done
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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[Report This] Published: 06/20/2019 Updated: 06/30/2019
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
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Content Notes: Bondage, How-To
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Completed: Yes Word count: 972 Read Count: 76
Here I show a basic Shinju (breast) bondage, which is comprised of multiple layers of rope, yet the Shinju ropes may be only a portion of a total bondage predicament, being combined with a torso harness, crotch (crupper) rope, and some kind of leg ropes.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
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[Report This] Published: 06/29/2019 Updated: 06/30/2019
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex: Tab A in Slots B, C, and D
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Why do people do it? (From the alt.sex.bondage FAQ) contents copyright© by Rob Jellinghaus
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex: Tab A in Slots B, C, and D
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[Report This] Published: 06/28/2019 Updated: 06/30/2019
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Categories: The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
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05/08/19 by Ms Monster. This is meant to be an introduction to basic rope bondage safety and technique.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
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[Report This] Published: 06/14/2019 Updated: 06/14/2019
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Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
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Completed: Yes Word count: 501 Read Count: 527
Dealing with drop
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[Report This] Published: 05/04/2019 Updated: 06/01/2019
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Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
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What is pain?
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[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 06/01/2019
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Playing with Someone's Bits
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Relaxation and Orgasm Control Training.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Playing with Someone's Bits
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[Report This] Published: 06/01/2019 Updated: 06/01/2019
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Categories: How-To > Equipment > Stuff for Still and Quiet
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About gags.
Categories: How-To > Equipment > Stuff for Still and Quiet
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[Report This] Published: 05/05/2019 Updated: 05/05/2019
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Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
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Therefore, I can give you some pointers on how to get to sub space, but it is ultimately up to each Top and bottom to find out what works for them.
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[Report This] Published: 02/10/2019 Updated: 05/05/2019
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Categories: How-To > Equipment > Sensation Play
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All about figging.
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[Report This] Published: 05/05/2019 Updated: 05/05/2019
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Bathroom Business
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If someone suffers from, or has a history of, hemorrhoids, how (if at all) will this affect one's ability to participate in anal activities.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Bathroom Business
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[Report This] Published: 04/25/2019 Updated: 05/05/2019
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Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
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If your partner has a panic attack...
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[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 04/17/2019
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Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
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A woman should always be on display.
Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
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[Report This] Published: 12/17/2018 Updated: 02/24/2019