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Top Hat and Tails: by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Instruction on the basics of formal protocol in a Don/sub relationship.


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Lifestyle Info, Protocol
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1899 Read Count: 1682
[Report This] Published: 09/08/2015 Updated: 10/01/2015
Summary:

An exploration and explanation of subspace: what it is and the care of subs who enter and return.


Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3523 Read Count: 1942
[Report This] Published: 09/08/2015 Updated: 10/01/2015
Summary:

The importance of trust in BDSM relationship


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2235 Read Count: 4563
[Report This] Published: 09/08/2015 Updated: 09/14/2015
What is a submissive? by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Definitions of a submissive from a Dominant's point of view. The differeing views of what a submissive actually is.


Categories: Submission > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1643 Read Count: 1625
[Report This] Published: 09/08/2015 Updated: 09/09/2015
Can I Get That In Writing? by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Basics of Negotiations in the BDSM lifestyle.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Contracts
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1610 Read Count: 1573
[Report This] Published: 09/08/2015 Updated: 09/09/2015
Summary:

The owner can place any limitation on their property that is acceptable at the time of negotiations. Any limitation that the slave agrees to is acceptable.


Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 502 Read Count: 25
[Report This] Published: 08/17/2015 Updated: 08/27/2015
Summary:

Recently I had an interesting experience with a wannabees slave. I write all of this for you all to realize what hazards there are out there when you are looking for an in-home slave/sub.


Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 7489 Read Count: 1863
[Report This] Published: 08/17/2015 Updated: 08/24/2015
Summary:

When you consider a Master/Mistress and slave relationship you must consider what exactly a slave is. What rights is a slave allowed? What behaviors are acceptable? What consequences are permitted?


Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1586 Read Count: 1850
[Report This] Published: 08/17/2015 Updated: 08/24/2015
What is a Middle? by DDlgdoodles Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

I get a lot of questions asking about what separates a middle from a little. Unfortunately there's not too much information or resources for littles who identify more as a middle, so I'm going to try and help with that.    


Categories: Submission > Being a Little, The Lifestyle > DDlg MDlb CGl ABDLmnop
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 351 Read Count: 3684
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2015 Updated: 08/21/2015
Twelve Essays By Master Eso by Master Eso Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 1]
Summary:

Master Eso presents twelve essays to be read in order, thus, they are submitted in chapter format. Topics are: Article One: Absolute Slavery, Article Two: Our Absolute Lifestyle, Article Three: Defining Absolute and Total Power Exchange, Article Four: Honorifics, Titles and Respect, Article Five: Slavery in Word and Speech, Article Six: Defining Abuse in Absolute and Total Power Exchange, Article Seven: Safewords In Slavery, Article Eight: Consent With Awareness, Article Nine: The Process Of Selection, Article Ten: Knights Vs. Gods, Article Eleven: Slave Petitions, Article Twelve: An Esoteric View: Civility and Incivility In The Scene


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info, Philosophy, Protocol
Series: None
Chapters: 12 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 11959 Read Count: 57686
[Report This] Published: 08/11/2015 Updated: 08/15/2015
Summary:

Abusers and dominants are so similar on the surface that it's scarily difficult to tell them apart.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 751 Read Count: 2175
[Report This] Published: 07/27/2015 Updated: 08/09/2015
Summary:

An explanation of the Taken in Hand theory of D/s consciously and consensually male controlled sexually exclusive monogamous relationship in which the man’s power is real and for the purpose of cultivating a deeply connected, fully engaged relationship.


Categories: Dominance, The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Lifestyle Info, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1336 Read Count: 2260
[Report This] Published: 03/14/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Contracting 101 by Castle Realm Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

the basic purposes of contracts in a D/s relationship.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Contracts
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1281 Read Count: 8714
[Report This] Published: 03/21/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
Abuse: A Common Link? by Castle Realm Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary: An insightful look at a serious issue in D/s relationships. Help for dealing with the ghosts from our pasts.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3049 Read Count: 2845
[Report This] Published: 03/21/2015 Updated: 03/22/2015
The Wacky World of CNC and Gor by _q_ Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The difference between CNC and Gor


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info, Non-Consent
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 98 Read Count: 1756
[Report This] Published: 02/04/2015 Updated: 02/07/2015
Negotiation First Terms by Shelby Cross Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The first terms of my scene negotiations. This is what I can offer, and what I need you to give me. If these preliminary terms cannot be met, then we have nothing further to talk about.


Categories: How-To > Checklists & Negotiation
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1092 Read Count: 3201
[Report This] Published: 01/22/2015 Updated: 01/23/2015
Summary:

How do I tell the difference between someone who really wants to help me, and someone who is a predator, an exploiter, someone who just wants to take advantage of me?"


Categories: Submission, The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, How-To, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1212 Read Count: 3265
[Report This] Published: 01/22/2015 Updated: 01/22/2015
Summary:

Knowing the difference between the real deal and a poseur so you can keep safe.


Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info, Philosophy, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 386 Read Count: 4094
[Report This] Published: 01/21/2015 Updated: 01/21/2015
Summary:

Sample contract for temporary ownership


Categories: The Lifestyle > Contracts
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1242 Read Count: 63
[Report This] Published: 07/24/2014 Updated: 07/24/2014
A Switch Comment by kissa Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

About switches and the sometimes hassle they get.


Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1795 Read Count: 1747
[Report This] Published: 07/22/2014 Updated: 07/22/2014
Summary:

Expecting everything to be dream-like and perfect?


Categories: Submission, The Lifestyle > 24/7
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2652 Read Count: 5810
[Report This] Published: 07/22/2014 Updated: 07/22/2014
Summary:

The spiritual side of submission isn't always thinder and ligtening


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: My Travels with Griffin
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1433 Read Count: 2618
[Report This] Published: 07/21/2014 Updated: 07/21/2014
Summary:

Beginners are told a lot of lies. Here's a short, non-complete list.


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1529 Read Count: 2581
[Report This] Published: 07/18/2014 Updated: 07/18/2014
Summary:

Hurting people for fun, physically and mentally


Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: Humiliation, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1264 Read Count: 2601
[Report This] Published: 07/17/2014 Updated: 07/17/2014
Summary:

Saving money on fashion, toys, dating and events


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1580 Read Count: 2486
[Report This] Published: 07/17/2014 Updated: 07/17/2014
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