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Other Results: 2 Series
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Coming Out Kinky by Garden Chat Topics Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Have you told the people that you love that you're kinky? Why or why not? What are the pros and cons, how would you do it?


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General, How-To, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 6771 Read Count: 129
[Report This] Published: 03/25/2023 Updated: 03/25/2023
Summary:

3/11/23 Sid talks about mental domination and submission and the connection between partners


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1535 Read Count: 118
[Report This] Published: 03/15/2023 Updated: 03/15/2023
Summary:

11/16/22 Sero leads a discussion on how we can maintain a long distance relationship in BDSM.


Categories: Online D/s, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3475 Read Count: 143
[Report This] Published: 01/16/2023 Updated: 03/14/2023
Unity by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Sometimes it is in the feelings and responses of others that we learn or relearn simple lessons. In this I have been both perpetrator and victim.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 788 Read Count: 225
[Report This] Published: 07/07/2021 Updated: 12/23/2022
The Toy Box by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The Toy Box is an individual's assemblage of toys.


Categories: How-To > Equipment
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1678 Read Count: 250
[Report This] Published: 07/06/2021 Updated: 12/23/2022
The Sexual Submissive by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A sexual submissive is a person who manifests submissive traits only in direct connection with sexual arousal and release.    


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1055 Read Count: 253
[Report This] Published: 07/05/2021 Updated: 12/23/2022
Summary:

Focusing on the difficulties that a Sadist faces from social implications and expectations to the risks we take on while we do what we do and how that can cause some difficulties in rationalizing doing what we do.


Categories: Dominance, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 7438 Read Count: 275
[Report This] Published: 11/14/2022 Updated: 12/23/2022
Consent & Negotiations by ShibariStudy Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Negotiation, consent, and communication before, during, and after a scene.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2408 Read Count: 212
[Report This] Published: 11/13/2022 Updated: 12/23/2022
Aftercare and Drop by Garden Chat Topics Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

11/9 we'll have a chit-chat about Aftercare and Drop. Because these two things are so often talked about in relation to "sweet, delicate, helpless" submissives, we're going to make sure that we also talk about, as @Sid calls them, "Those Who have no Souls", Dominants.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 8978 Read Count: 217
[Report This] Published: 11/20/2022 Updated: 12/23/2022
THE NEED FOR SPEED by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

"I am looking for a NEW SUBMISSIVE to collar as my slave." Why? This comment is perhaps one of the more common statements made by Male Dominant names in Internet chat rooms.

 


Categories: Online D/s, The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To, Lifestyle Info, Online
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1037 Read Count: 256
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 10/23/2022
TERMS... by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A few definitions


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2148 Read Count: 260
[Report This] Published: 07/05/2021 Updated: 10/23/2022
Jealousy by Sero, Garden Chat Topics Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Sero talks about Jealousy in the Life and Lovestyle of BDSM. 10/19/22


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 6622 Read Count: 280
[Report This] Published: 10/23/2022 Updated: 10/23/2022
Summary:

SummersKiss talks about Establishing Healthy Boundaries. 10/22/22


Categories: The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 10165 Read Count: 249
[Report This] Published: 10/23/2022 Updated: 10/23/2022
Summary:

Every adult has gone through some form of trauma and has had varying success with healing that trauma. On 10/15/22 The Kink Shrink talks about healing and managing trauma.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 11359 Read Count: 246
[Report This] Published: 10/21/2022 Updated: 10/21/2022
Summary:

9/17/22 Topic Chat What We Want to Tell Our Younger Selves


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy, The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 13381 Read Count: 255
[Report This] Published: 10/09/2022 Updated: 10/09/2022
Vetting by Garden Chat Topics, Sero Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

10/5/22 Discussion about Vetting New Partners


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3331 Read Count: 273
[Report This] Published: 10/09/2022 Updated: 10/09/2022
Summary:

10/8/22 discussion of Trust in BDSM


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 9225 Read Count: 244
[Report This] Published: 10/09/2022 Updated: 10/09/2022
RESPECT by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Within the BDSM community it is common to find large numbers of people who believe that by merely 'naming' themselves or 'self-labeling' ensures them the 'right' to expressions of respect.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 838 Read Count: 271
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 03/04/2022
PREPARING THE FLESH... by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Many forms of BDSM scening involve the intense involvement of the skin and tissues of the submissive/slave in the scene. A newcomer to BDSM often brings with them all of the images they have seen, read about or heard often through pornographic films, dime store erotica books and tales stretched till they reek like old fish    


Categories: How-To > A Trip to the Dungeon
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1089 Read Count: 291
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 12/31/2021
PREDATORS and FAKIR ~ by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

How to deal with doms who took money from his sub and made false promises, and also what to do if a dom tries to defame your character if you mention to others that he took money from you and will not pay you back.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1341 Read Count: 271
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 12/31/2021
PERFORMANCE SCENING ~ by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Performance is a dramatic representation or exhibition of an action, role or character presented to, toward and for an audience.     


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: Fetish, For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 794 Read Count: 279
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 12/31/2021
OUTING by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Outing is a term most frequently associated with members of the gay or lesbian community when they voluntarily or involuntarily reveal their sexual orientation publicly.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 852 Read Count: 240
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 12/31/2021
NEGOTIATE ~ by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

What happens if you are a new submissive and do not know what your 'soft limits' <please read article on website titled soft limits> are? How can you pre-decide what to identify as a limit?    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1124 Read Count: 317
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 12/31/2021
Summary:

The art of not being a bull in the D/s china shop.


Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1416 Read Count: 282
[Report This] Published: 02/13/2020 Updated: 06/26/2021
Summary:

Please join Pjosi in talking on Compromise.


Categories: How-To > Checklists & Negotiation
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: No Word count: 1566 Read Count: 290
[Report This] Published: 11/01/2020 Updated: 06/26/2021
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