11/9 we'll have a chit-chat about Aftercare and Drop. Because these two things are so often talked about in relation to "sweet, delicate, helpless" submissives, we're going to make sure that we also talk about, as @Sid calls them, "Those Who have no Souls", Dominants.
Traits of a slave
After observing and responding to several "How do I fist" posts I am writing an article on it so that everyone can share in this most wonderful and loving act.
Sometimes we give much weight to what people say to us. This is particularly so for people who become known to each other through the Internet and phone.
Affectionate care and attention following any type of traumatic or mentally challenging event.
Allure: The power of attraction or fascination
Venturing into the realms of Altered Mental States should be done carefully.
Introducing a second submissive into an established relationship.
It is fundamentally true that within the BDSM community are physical, emotional and mental abusers.
The act of punishment offers absolution from mistakes within a dynamic.
From ancient Japan to hitchin' in L.A., shibari has an interesting history.
Punishment is one of those areas which is not what it seems. Before you can develop tools or methods of punishment you have to look at the concepts behind the issue itself.
Dec 1, 2019 UnrulyNerdGirl talks about what the difference between ageplay and DD/lg.
Providing those CG/l relationships who enjoy ritual in their dynamics a new element without having to feel as if it is traditional slave positional training
The do's and Dont's for that first time spanking.
adaptation by jade. Computer users often engage in cyber sex and the online D/s community lends itself well to this little parody. Sometimes one of the two cyber-D/s'ers just doesn't seem to quite get the point of cyber sex. Then again, maybe he does...
Things tha submissive night need to copy on a blackboard.
Please keep in mind this is a "humorous" look and not directed at anyone we know and love.
Topic chat July 7, 2019 Choice in D/s by esmay.
First time Topping: how to start off right.
Aches and Pains and Processing the Pain by southerwildcat Sunday Topic 05/26/2019 1:00PM and 8:00PM US EST
If someone suffers from, or has a history of, hemorrhoids, how (if at all) will this affect one's ability to participate in anal activities.
An introduction to Gor.
You don't get to submit - or dominate - only when you're in the mood.
As part of your negotiation, ask this question.