01/02/2022 kissa leads a discussion on Drop on another server.
Polygamy is a marriage or relationship in which a spouse of either sex may have more than one mate at the same time.
Addressing drop in Doms and subs
A dominant can easily be equated with a guru. There is a certain lure to adopting the role of teacher, mentor, guide, owner, parent, sometimes even god or goddess as part of the interpretation of 'being dominant'.
A Dominant is a person with a dominant aspect in their personality. A Master is a Dominant with significant real life BDSM experience.
Space . . . the beckoning edge of the mind. It defies ready description, challenges us with its illusive presence yet exists in the same undefinable way that all intangible things exist.
The detaching of a Dominant due to excess energy release!
The first choice and decision you must make when approaching this lifestyle is the apparently simple choice to Do No Harm!
Check your potential partners reputation. Ask questions. Ask subs they used to be with. Listen to the itch in your brain that something isn't right. Be safe.
Does frequent scening or the ongoing interaction of a full D/s relationship desensitize the submissive?
Fear and denial of who we are, offer some of the greatest devastation's to the human spirit.
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It is seldom possible to divorce our inner feelings entirely from the thoughts, considerations and even dreams upon which we were raised. Within the mind the concept of 'marriage' tends to connotate permanence, commitment, devotion, stability with the reflections of integrity, honor and trust included. Violation of the sanctity of given oaths in it's simplest form demonstrates a willingness on the part of the individual to vacate the integrity of these concepts without notification or assumption of responsibility to their involved contractual partner. |
Please note - If you have a serious mental illness relating to abuse in any form that you should immediately seek out excellent professional assistance and work through, process or otherwise reach a point of mental stability. This should occur prior to seeking out or engaging in a D/s relationship. A D/s relationship requires mental health or competence as part of it's fundamental ideal of consent! You should not look for a relationship to rescue or heal your abuse!
Lord **** grim words and posting bring sad sighs of shared pain and anguish to me. Over the years the tiny news clips parade like a litany of darkness in the soul. Some are friends, some distant names whispered on frightened lips. This posting propelled a discussion with a Dom/male friend of mine about the inherent dangers of 'First Meetings'. This discussion centered around his own impending first meeting with a submissive fem from this on-line community. He expressed his extreme concern at her failure to ask critical questions of him before agreeing to meet him.
Sometimes a Dominant will become involved with a submissive unlike any submissive they have met before. In this case I am referring to a High-End Submissive. (please see article titled High-End Submissive)
The Kink Shrink visits to talk all about degradation and how it differs from humiliation. This is edge play. 9/20/20
What does it mean to me
To teach or train, to make a convert of, more directly to make a disciple of. It is an action made in the interest of order, rule, or control
A view from both sides of the slash
The importance of learning to be a Dom.
Leading and following on the D/s path
Pjosi builds on previous topic about DIY BDSM Toys. May 3, 2020
The two D/s roles, what they mean, and why. Chat on Dec 12 2019 by Song Yung
BDSM 101 chat with Sinistar on Feb 18, 2020 on what D-types do.
Chat Topic by Ms Monster and little dragon March 3 on do-it-yourself and cheap toys and pervertables.