There is nothing more important than trust. It is fairly said that the first gift of the submissive is absolute trust.
Trust is the confident dependence on the character, ability, strength or truth of the individual. Trustworthiness is not transient, temporary or in selective existence.
The Training Collar represents the second collar exchanged between a Dominant and a submissive.
To be trained is to be shaped in a direction or path that is unnatural to the individual.
Tops Disease is the corruption of power.
A Dominant acts as a guardian for the life, welfare, mental and physical well being of any submissive whom they accept within their territory or life. Care of - two very significant words.
You cannot solve any relationship issue by force. A top cannot simply tell a bottom to 'accept' it, or 'get over it'. If that top does try this in a fairly short time they will be just a person living single.
The S/m lifestyle is full of titles. Ceremonial forms of address which often allude to or denote behavior as well.
The Wall: The Wall is one identification of the limit that the mind and body are physically capable of processing.
The Voice, language, command structures and delivery are perhaps the least understood, most illusive and hardest to convey concepts in text form.
The Toy Box is an individual's assemblage of toys.
A sexual submissive is a person who manifests submissive traits only in direct connection with sexual arousal and release.
It is fairly said that the first gift of the submissive is absolute trust. This action of faith and belief precede true knowledge of the dominant that each submissive invests in.
"I am looking for a NEW SUBMISSIVE to collar as my slave." Why? This comment is perhaps one of the more common statements made by Male Dominant names in Internet chat rooms.
Qualities of a Dominant
DOMINANT, PREDOMINANT, PARAMOUNT PREPONDERANT, SOVEREIGN...superior to ALL others in power, influence or importance!
The act or process that reveals inherent qualities, traits, characteristics. A procedure for determining a change in condition.
A few definitions
There is a pervasive belief that because you are now oriented toward a different lifestyle that it is permissive to break all the rules of good conduct, ethics, morality, sexual responsibility and basic human dignity
Every adult has gone through some form of trauma and has had varying success with healing that trauma. On 10/15/22 The Kink Shrink talks about healing and managing trauma.
Look, relationships don't always work out, and that is shit.
If this realm were merely about the offering of the body for the entertainment or sustenance of the illusion of submission then any actor could fill the role and play the game.
Surrender: To cease trying to retain or control and agree to yield. To devote oneself entirely to 'something' without restraint, reservation or resistance.
Sexual availability in D/s dynamics.
Those that seem to carry the traits the strongest appear to descend from families of historical dominance. I believe that most women are naturally 'commanders' of their realm.