Intimacy is defined as a close personal relationship marked by deep affection and love, frequently characterized by depth of knowledge and attention.
Those that seem to carry the traits the strongest appear to descend from families of historical dominance. I believe that most women are naturally 'commanders' of their realm.
Handling conflict in D/s
There are several types of Dominant Models. Ways and means to identify if and when an individual is dominant.
Sometimes it feels like we have an overwhelming need for labels.
This submissive often emerges quite young. This submissive is most often a female. S/he will generally be quite bright, articulate, charming, loving, giving, career oriented, willful.
The act of humility, the state of presenting yourself so to the world is perhaps one of the most difficult things to do.
That damned inviible hair that starts itching as soon as a submissive is bound.
This is from a workshop I run on humiliation. Humiliation IS edge play.
All four letter words beginning with *p* are not the same. Play and Poly do not mean the same things.
Humiliation and the male submissive is often the delivery of shame.
This is your life; give your precious commodities your way!
One of the most delicate practices of the BDSM community is the art form of directed, controlled, willful and consensual humiliation.
Using safewords and gestures
The art of not being a bull in the D/s china shop.
Please join Pjosi in talking on Compromise.
By little dragon Oct 18, 2020. How to be in an ethical BDSM dynamic.
The concept of obedience presented by little dragon 11/25/20.
Addressing drop in Doms and subs
Let's talk boundaries and limits
The problem comes when the individual tries to translate a fictional realm into a real life lifestyle.
After observing and responding to several "How do I fist" posts I am writing an article on it so that everyone can share in this most wonderful and loving act.
Bringing D/s into an estabished relationship.
This is primarily oriented toward male submissives! It is designed to offer ideas, hints and suggestions based on some common male fetishes such as dog training, cross dressing, light humiliation etc.
One of the first questions asked of a new submissive is "What are your limits?"