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Sterile Safety by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Achievement of a state of sterility for objects used or reused in BDSM scening is often a poorly understood issue for newcomers into the D/s or BDSM communities.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1234 Read Count: 218
[Report This] Published: 07/05/2021 Updated: 10/09/2022
SPIRITUALITY by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

I will express this from my personal viewpoint. When I view myself as a whole being I consider myself to be 3 distinct parts.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 513 Read Count: 232
[Report This] Published: 07/05/2021 Updated: 10/09/2022
SPECIES TRAITOR ~ by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The fostering of hostile malevolence sufficient to inspire a person to violate and betray that which nurtures, sustains and maintains their personal existence and the long term continued existence of their species.     


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 823 Read Count: 209
[Report This] Published: 07/05/2021 Updated: 10/09/2022
SOFT LIMITS by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Please take a moment to read the article titled 'Hard Limits' before continuing to read this article.    


Categories: How-To > A Trip to the Dungeon
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 753 Read Count: 204
[Report This] Published: 07/05/2021 Updated: 10/09/2022
SOCIAL/SEXUAL MONOGAMY ~ by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Monogamy is the condition of having a single mate at one time.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 841 Read Count: 214
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 10/09/2022
Slave Names and Tagging by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Within 'primarily' the last 2,000 years the practice of naming became intricately attached to providing 'lineage' information across generational lives.    


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1114 Read Count: 235
[Report This] Published: 07/05/2021 Updated: 10/09/2022
SHAME by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Shame has been used as a control tool for countless centuries. As societies form they create appropriate rules of conduct.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 693 Read Count: 230
[Report This] Published: 07/05/2021 Updated: 10/09/2022
SEXUAL RITUALISM ~ by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Many of us tend to focus upon the quasi-sexual aspects of 'scening' within the BDSM lifestyle.


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1019 Read Count: 165
[Report This] Published: 07/05/2021 Updated: 10/09/2022
Sex by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The sphere of interpersonal behavior most directly associated with leading up to, substituting for or resulting from genital union.


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 762 Read Count: 222
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 10/09/2022
Summary:

Considering 24/7 dynamics


Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1021 Read Count: 239
[Report This] Published: 02/23/2020 Updated: 10/09/2022
SERVING by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

One of the most overlooked aspects of a long term D/s full time relationship is the orientation of the partner's within the relationship 'toward' each other. D/s relationships tend to be very intimately involved and often present unique and complex issues.     


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 957 Read Count: 173
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 10/09/2022
SELF ESTEEM ~ by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Self-esteem - to measure or evaluate an unstable dynamic state through material objects, money or perceptions of success within the physical plane.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 681 Read Count: 229
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 10/09/2022
Summary:

9/24/22 Topic Chat on How to be a Dominant


Categories: Dominance, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4180 Read Count: 243
[Report This] Published: 10/09/2022 Updated: 10/09/2022
Summary:

9/17/22 Topic Chat What We Want to Tell Our Younger Selves


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy, The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 13381 Read Count: 255
[Report This] Published: 10/09/2022 Updated: 10/09/2022
Vetting by Garden Chat Topics, Sero Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

10/5/22 Discussion about Vetting New Partners


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3331 Read Count: 273
[Report This] Published: 10/09/2022 Updated: 10/09/2022
Summary:

10/8/22 discussion of Trust in BDSM


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 9225 Read Count: 244
[Report This] Published: 10/09/2022 Updated: 10/09/2022
SCENE SPEAK ~ by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Scene speech is a language that we develop and use solely in-scene. We reserve this speech to augment and accentuate the atmosphere of the scene and often to heighten the sensory experience for both Dominant and submissive.


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1286 Read Count: 284
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 03/04/2022
SANITY by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Much is said about Safe, Sane and Consensual within the BDSM lifestyle, it has become a cornerstone catch word for living. What isn't being discussed is the necessary evaluation of mental condition that it entails upon all people.     


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1043 Read Count: 258
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 03/04/2022
SAFE WORDS ~ NO SAFETY by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

One of the most talked about features of the BDSM community is the existence and usage of the Safe Word or Safe Call or Safe Sign.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 855 Read Count: 269
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 03/04/2022
SAFE by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Safe: secure from threat or danger, harm or loss. Except, there is no such security. D/s and BDSM exist where safety is tenuous at best. Assurances of complete safety simply cannot be given.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management, The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1081 Read Count: 268
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 03/04/2022
SADIST ~ by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The practice of intentionally inflicting pain or sensation upon another human being as a means of obtaining sexual energy release predates Comte de Sade    


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM History
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 834 Read Count: 253
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 03/04/2022
Roots... by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

It is my personal belief that D/s emerges from the most basic primal and instinctual triggers within the human body and human mind.     


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 479 Read Count: 250
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 03/04/2022
RITUALS by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Ritual's are most often associated with religious faith's or belief's but in actuality they exist throughout our daily lives under other names. 

 


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1643 Read Count: 257
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 03/04/2022
Summary:

The 'idea' of 'risk aware' has been around a long time. The problem being that most people are not really aware of the risks at all.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1013 Read Count: 239
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 03/04/2022
RESPECT by FRR Mallory Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Within the BDSM community it is common to find large numbers of people who believe that by merely 'naming' themselves or 'self-labeling' ensures them the 'right' to expressions of respect.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 838 Read Count: 271
[Report This] Published: 07/04/2021 Updated: 03/04/2022
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