Penname: UnrulyNerdGirl [Contact] Real name:
Member Since: 05/28/2017
Membership status: Member
Bio:

Given her love of silverware, cuisine, and a crisp linen collar, it was not a surprise that UnrulyNerdGirl (UNG) fell in love with Domestic Service submission (aka Luxury Lifestyle submission). After over 20 years of exploring and growing in the Ds lifestyle, she finally found a submissive outlet that felt true to her, and she hopes to share her knowledge and experience with others.

Gender: female
Fetlife User Name: UnrulyNerdGirl
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Stories by UnrulyNerdGirl
Summary:

UNG talks high protocol and it isn't all tea and bootblacking


Categories: How-To > Protocol, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3619 Read Count: 354
[Report This] Published: 09/19/2020 Updated: 09/19/2020
Summary:

Things to remember around submissives that are not in your dynamic.


Categories: Submission, The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1350 Read Count: 428
[Report This] Published: 06/04/2020 Updated: 08/14/2020
Summary:

The truth is domestic service submissives are often rare and it is difficult to find us.    


Categories: Submission > Self Training, The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2254 Read Count: 813
[Report This] Published: 06/04/2020 Updated: 06/04/2020
Summary:

Dec 1, 2019 UnrulyNerdGirl talks about what the difference between ageplay and DD/lg.


Categories: Dominance > Daddy & Mommy Dom/mes, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics, Submission > Being a Little
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 9782 Read Count: 457
[Report This] Published: 02/21/2020 Updated: 03/08/2020
What Service Can Be by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary: What domestic service submission can be.
Categories: The Lifestyle, Dominance, Submission, How-To
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: No Word count: 1444 Read Count: 680
[Report This] Published: 10/27/2019 Updated: 01/14/2020
Summary: Compassion as service submission.
Categories: The Lifestyle, Submission, How-To
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: No Word count: 1153 Read Count: 510
[Report This] Published: 10/27/2019 Updated: 01/14/2020
Pain As Service by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary: How receiving (or giving) pain can be a service.
Categories: How-To, The Lifestyle, Dominance, Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 734 Read Count: 581
[Report This] Published: 10/27/2019 Updated: 01/14/2020
Cigar Service by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary: Domestic service submission - cigar service
Categories: The Lifestyle, Submission, How-To
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: No Word count: 1139 Read Count: 2916
[Report This] Published: 10/27/2019 Updated: 01/14/2020
Summary:

Like many forms of power exchange or BDSM play, age play creates a fantasy, it is the avenue for pleasure. Sometimes though, there are times when age play is not a healthy form of play, or engaging in it is not a healthy activity.    


Categories: Dominance > Daddy & Mommy Dom/mes, Submission > Being a Little
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1543 Read Count: 3558
[Report This] Published: 02/02/2019 Updated: 02/02/2019
Summary: A semi-fantastical look at the reality of being a pro Dominatrix.
Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1150 Read Count: 1600
[Report This] Published: 06/15/2017 Updated: 06/18/2017
Summary: For those who are interested in service submission, it can be very difficult to find any sort of learning or teachings on service.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 928 Read Count: 1833
[Report This] Published: 06/04/2017 Updated: 06/13/2017
Summary: Elocution is the execution of expressive speech - pronunciation, articulation, vocalisation, intonation, modulation, tone and style.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1007 Read Count: 1697
[Report This] Published: 06/04/2017 Updated: 06/13/2017
Summary:

There are a lot of ideas out there as to what a Mommy Domme is, a lot of preconceived ideas probably based on talking to third party or biased others, or, God forbid, porn. Here's mine...


Categories: Dominance > Daddy & Mommy Dom/mes
Characters: None
Content Notes: FemDom
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1024 Read Count: 1486
[Report This] Published: 06/04/2017 Updated: 06/13/2017
Manners and Etiquette by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A fast guide to the rules and protocols you might encounter in a leather/BDSM/fet gathering with some do's and don'ts.


Categories: How-To > Protocol
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1788 Read Count: 4309
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Service, My Style by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

There is no one way to give service or execute tasks but here are what UNG considers the 5 commandments for service


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2572 Read Count: 4647
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Fostering Dominants by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

We need to start supporting, fostering, being a patron of Dominants because they are so cynical that they can't recognize true submission any more and some tips on how to do so.


Categories: Dominance, Submission, The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2605 Read Count: 4079
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Why Serve? by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

What Are the Characteristics of a Service Submissive and Why?    


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1416 Read Count: 1295
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
A Body Service Tutorial by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Personal grooming is perhaps the most intimate duty that can be performed between a service submissive and the Dominant he/she is serving.    


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1168 Read Count: 33
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Summary:

A few go to items that I like to always have on hand to tackle certain tasks or jobs.    


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 557 Read Count: 1616
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
On Receiving Service by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

If someone is offering service, it can often be very difficult for the receiver to know how to act, how to accept such service.    


Categories: Dominance, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 777 Read Count: 1478
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Summary:

One of the misconceptions of service submission is service means free labour. Service, has a cost - both seen and unseen - and it can be calculated.    


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 687 Read Count: 1372
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Summary:

Replying to a personal ad, or showing someone you're interested in him/her, has become a lost art.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1200 Read Count: 1508
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Service Submission by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

My reference notes from a talk I gave on Service Submission, to MAsT Sydney, July 2016.    


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 562 Read Count: 2877
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Summary:

How to spot a faker.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1689 Read Count: 1702
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Pro's & Con's by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

There are many pro's and con's to being single and being unowned.


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 571 Read Count: 42
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
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