In the past I have read countless articles, books and opinions on the difference between a slave and a submissive, everyone seems to have a point of view or a "standard" for a slave. Yet with so many different ideas and perspectives, what really is a slave, or better yet who?
Are D-types control freaks? Is it a power trip? Is being a control freak a lack of trust issue or something else? Can S-types be control freak? How does being in control and being a control freak differ? Can you be a dominant personality and not want to have control?
Questions for a submissive/bottom before a scene.
When you wish a specific behavior to occur you must use specific words. Don't vs. Stop, Nude vs. Naked, Humiliation VS Degradation, Dehumanization VS Depersonalization, Want VS Need
To me an internet relationship is more of a role playing game, one where there is no risk, no possibility of failure.
As you can see there are a lot of hidden meanings in different phrases and statements that individuals use and they may or may not realize the full weight of what they are stating.
What is a Dominant's moral obligation to his or her slave?
Many individuals prefer multiple slaves/subs within the BDSM lifestyle; how to best control and govern the slaves within one's household.
Face slapping is an art. How-to tips.
Most dungeons hold many dangers, by their very design they encourage pain and suffering, but you must do all that is within your power to make sure that the playroom and the instruments of torture that you use are kept clean and as sanitary as possible to avoid unintentional harm.
An Experience in British Tea Service. A history, instructions and protocol, and recipes.
Service is the most primary, the most basic of terms within the BDSM realm. Service can loosely be defined as an act or work done by one individual to the benefit another, but what does service mean within the BDSM realm? This multi-part document holds the rules and regulations for the BDSM House of Norische.
A Master seeing the final moments of his boy's freedom before the lock is closed.