Serving with Grace and Beauty by Garden Chat Topics, kissa
Summary:

Kajira kissa explains and demonstrates the magic mirror method of finding your own beauty and grace while serving online. April 21, 2020.


Categories: Submission > Self Training, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics, On and Off Gor > Kajirae > Serves Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, Gor, Online
Challenges:
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Completed: Yes Word count: 5783 Read: 415 Published: 04/22/2020 Updated: 04/22/2020

1. Chapter 1 by Garden Chat Topics

Chapter 1 by Garden Chat Topics

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:02 PM Masters and Mistresses, this one begs your mercy as she will be mostly addressing the submissives for this hour. she begs your tolerance as she hopes to teach grace and beauty in serving to better please you.

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:03 PM Yo, subbies and slaves. Hey.

chrissa 04/21/20 at 8:03 PM giggles a little

traylicious 04/21/20 at 8:03 PM hehe

Serrian 04/21/20 at 8:03 PM I'll allow it.

tarryn(MHK) 04/21/20 at 8:03 PM Lol

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:03 PM So, this isn't going to be a quiet one where you listen to me lecture. This particular one is one where you all are speaking, too.

Master Serrian, this one thanks you for your mercy and tolerance,

Today isn't about Gor. Gor is easy. Read the books. You got it. Today is about words and being pleasing

If you peek into il solaio or the library at any time, you'll see Dominants and submissives *doing stuff: cleaning, getting drinks, reading a book, or listening to music.

A kajira, however, like emily, or me, is going to do that stuff differently. A kajira, which, in Gorean, means "slave" serves with Fire and Heart. Her only focus is to be found pleasing as she does her duty

A few of you may have seen kajirae serve. It's like really hot poetry - or purple prose. THAT is what we'll be doing today.

Yesterday, Miss @Song Yung did a journal challenge that demanded that those participating see themselves in a better light - to find their own gifts and talents and work hard at expressing them to increase self-esteem.

Today, we're going to use what i call a magic mirror to do something similar

smiles so, everyone, get that magic mirror. It's full length. Put it in front of you and close your eyes. Now strip. All you can see is yourself in the mirror.

oh yeah, open your eyes grins

So, head, maybe hair, shoulders, arms, chest and whatever is sticking out of it, tummy, hips, legs, feet.

What this mirror does is show you the BEST possible version of yourself. It shows you - the most beautiful you.
okay, tell me, everyone, about your hair

SleepMonger 04/21/20 at 8:13 PM Touches the top of his head a little and cries silently

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:22 PM however, if i look into my mirror and really figure out the exact color of my eyes, they are like cinnamon.

emily 04/21/20 at 8:22 PM hazel! Mostly green-ish hazel

traylicious 04/21/20 at 8:22 PM my eyes are hazel and as the afternoon sun sets upon them making them sparkle

tarryn(MHK) 04/21/20 at 8:22 PM Boring blue lol

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:22 PM no such thing, tarryn.
tray, perfect

TLSCP 04/21/20 at 8:23 PM @kissa not brown, molten chocolate like a river of boiling heat just below the surface

chrissa 04/21/20 at 8:23 PM oooo takes notes

Ombra 04/21/20 at 8:23 PM Brown

smiley 04/21/20 at 8:23 PM Hazel

andone 04/21/20 at 8:23 PM blueish grey

TLSCP 0421/20 at 8:23 PM @tarryn(MHK) blue like the sky on a cloudless summer day

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 8:24 PM My eyes are like the golden rays of sun kissing the space between ocean and forest

tarryn(MHK) 04/21/20 at 8:24 PM Very nice Miss, thank You

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:24 PM so when you are looking into your eyes, find the color... the Caribbean. the color of the water just outside the Great barrier reef, the color of rain
TL, beautiful. My father's eyes are that color.

TLSCP 0421/20 at 8:24 PM @andone haze filled blue like the sky after a storm has passed

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:25 PM beautiful... you're all beautiful

amalthea 04/21/20 at 8:25 PM my eyes are like a magical forest in the fall and summer seasons where all different colors can be shown in all the different lights

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:25 PM so pretty

andone 04/21/20 at 8:25 PM nods yes like that @TLSCP blushes

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 8:25 PM My dark raven hair shines in the light to a depth that sometimes it appears blue electrical lights flicker inside the it's own dark galaxy. Almond shaped eyes frame an onyx stone. It appears iris and pupil have become one

Ou812 04/21/20 at 8:25 PM Blue as sky deep like the ocean

TLSCP 0421/20 at 8:26 PM @Song Yung Nice!

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:26 PM now do it with your mouth. Add emotion to it as well as description. i have really thin lips, but they are oddly, perfectly bow shaped. And i am usually smiling.
Song Yung, beautiful
Ou812, so handsome

chrissa 04/21/20 at 8:26 PM deep and doe-like, round with a hint of innocence that shimmers - the golden flecks in obsidian orbs glittering

TLSCP 0421/20 at 8:26 PM My eyes are a kaleidoscope of color, lightening or deepening with My mercurial mood

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:27 PM TL... oooo

Master HidoiKaeru 04/21/20 at 8:28 PM my eyes are a dark forbidden forest brown under a blackened moonless night

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:28 PM so, my lips are meh. There isn't much i can say about them, other than that i can suck the chrome off a '57 Chevy. But i can talk about my smile. Is it impish, is it wicked, is it serene, is it shy, only coming out for the dearest of people?

andone 04/21/20 at 8:28 PM My lips are a bit thick-ish and I occasionally accident bite them when not focusing on what I'm doing it gets a bit annoying at times

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 8:28 PM her painted mauve berry, full lips accentuate her face with an allure of promises not yet whispered

chrissa 04/21/20 at 8:29 PM a pink tongue glides over full, pillowed lips, giving them an enticing and enchanting shine that draws the eyes to their most useful purpose... they curve into a hint of a smile like holding onto some secret hope inside

TLSCP 0421/20 at 8:29 PM My hair falls in a cascade of natural burnt amber curls in a thick wave down to My shoulders

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:29 PM lovely!

AlphaWolf 04/21/20 at 8:29 PM My eyes are a deep sapphire blue, under a starlit sky

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:29 PM Do this as you look down the mirror. What do your shoulders look like? What about your arms? What color is your skin?

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 8:30 PM she tips the porcelain rim to her lips allowing the dark umber liquid to escape in and disappear behind to a world of possibilities

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:30 PM Frankly, i'm pasty pale. I live in Oregon and the sun makes me hiss like a vampire

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 8:30 PM but what a lovely porcelain vampiress you make @kissa

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:30 PM Song Yung, thank you, lovely one

chrissa 04/21/20 at 8:31 PM olive-toned skin that only turns more golden when kissed by the sun

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 8:31 PM My mouth..a blushing rose color. Lips full and sensual,made for biting and kissing. My smile is full of heat and mischief as I bite my bottom lip

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:31 PM BUT my pasty pale skin can be described as silken alabaster

TLSCP 0421/20 at 8:32 PM My natural olive skin burned a light red from days spent in the sun

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:32 PM So, i am usually nude, so i have a lot of skin to describe. I am going to describe how it changes as i move across the room.
Beautiful

TLSCP 0421/20 at 8:32 PM oh I can do movement

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:33 PM my skin is going to turn to a golden pearl when i walk in front of a fire. As i walk in front of a window, with the moon shining through, it's going to look like the petals of a night blooming flower

andone 04/21/20 at 8:33 PM My shoulders are squared up not super long and have had occasionally issues with them when it gets colder but not as bad as a few years back. My arms are lightly tanned and a bit hairy wile my skin was tan but is getting a bit lighter due to the seasonal change

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:33 PM movement is next grins

chrissa 04/21/20 at 8:34 PM oh my gosh, so beautiful!

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 8:34 PM My skin pale ivory, precious and kissed with a faint blush that turns golden in the hot rays of the summer sun

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:34 PM andy, good. So, how tall are you? How are you built? As a male, you can really emphasize that

Ou812 04/21/20 at 8:34 PM
@kissa beautifully described

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:34 PM thank you
again, when i look down at my leg, it's just pale, like every other Oregoner. But, my mirror shows me where my beauty is, because it's showing me an ideal based upon my reality.

So, i just suggested to @andone to describe how he's built. As a man, he can emphasize the width of his shoulders, the strength of his arms and legs

but what about me. i'm 5'6" and overweight

andone 04/21/20 at 8:37 PM
I'm not tall, I'm actually under 6 foot but a fair bit and hmm I'd say I'm fairly compact almost like I was built to compartmentalize . My thighs are the biggest part of my legs and my ....behind is quite taut I would say blushes

chrissa 04/21/20 at 8:37 PM I love to highlight the femininity of my frame, the curves, the places i really find special and beautiful.

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:38 PM so, i'm going to hit my thesaurus - i'm "lush" i'm "voluptuous" "Rubenesque"
i find words that all mean the same thing... but it's going to be a better version. Is it still me? Yep.

AlphaWolf 04/21/20 at 8:39 PM My shoulders squared, with confidence, standing straight 5'4, Stocky and well built, my skin tanned from the sun

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:39 PM exactly, AlphaWolf

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 8:40 PM A light yellow amber skin can glow warmly against the natural lights of fire and the sun. It turns to a dark clover honey when kissed by the sun for a considerable time. Her hips round out revealing her womanly shape. Her short legs are an optical illusion. Her commanding presence can contradict her shorter statue. She can easily burst into laughter or command a focused attention on her. This is not for any physical beauty, but her confidence and voice draws the listener into her illusory temptress' web

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:40 PM my curves catch the light... as i move, these hips, while sometimes feeling like a dancing hippo in Fantasia, are going to flow
SongYung, beautiful

Ou812 04/21/20 at 8:41 PM @Song Yung love it

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:42 PM My body - and we are talking dancing hippo - will be descibed as something beautiful, just as that hippo KNOWS she's the hottest fucking hippo on the planet, to the male hippo watching her

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 8:42 PM I'm 5'4" overweight but my mirror shows an hourglass figure with grabbable hips and a nice well rounded butt that's tickled lightly by my hair

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:42 PM likeitrough, gorgeous
actually, i think it was a crocodile, not a male hippo

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 8:43 PM @kissa your beautiful

andone 04/21/20 at 8:44 PM Blueish grey eyes look out over the garden . Strands of hair hang over the forehead while He sits a listens. His body is compact but works for how he intends to use ,his shoulders not to broad but enough to carry, his neck short but steady to not lose his head .

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 8:44 PM you are not overweight. you are voluptuous embracing your woman hood. Your hair is your crowning glory as it drapes and sways its fringes along the curves of your butt and hips to let men's eyes draw to where you lead them @likeitrough

chrissa 04/21/20 at 8:44 PM slender curves unfurl to all fours like the mere little animal she is, rounded ass rolling high into the air and making the line of her spine curve deeply. petite shoulders roll, making the blades draw against taut flesh as narrow waist draws even further inward with the tightening of her muscles, wanting to be as visually pleasing as possible... flared hips made to be grabbed and bruised rock in a sensual cadence of a lowly fucktoy as she prowls like a bitch in heat across the floor

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:44 PM nonetheless, it am going to remind myself of how hot i am when i move, because i want HIM to know i'm hot

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 8:45 PM very nice chrissa!

TLSCP 0421/20 at 8:45 PM I stride across the room gliding effortlessly on three inch heels, the soft light of the fire kisses My suntanned skin. Hips swaying, My sheath dress flitting open at the slit as I walk, with each step My small breasts bounce as I pour a cup of coffee and turn back to the room smiling. Leaning My tall frame against the marble counter I survey the room as firelight dances in My eyes.

andone 04/21/20 at 8:45 PM nice @chrissa

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 8:45 PM @Song Yung Miss thank you. You are very gifted blushes

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 8:45 PM @likeitrough no. you are this person. Please embrace it

chrissa 04/21/20 at 8:45 PM blushes thank you so much, everyone writes beautifully. thank you for inspiring us all @kissa

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:46 PM TL, i'll take it a step further - you're more than just tall. You're an Amazon. Your legs are a mile long

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 8:46 PM she has vavavoom legs

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:46 PM i've seen 'em!

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 8:46 PM @Song Yungnods smiling I am Miss thank you

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 8:47 PM smiles at @likeitrough "good"

AlphaWolf 04/21/20 at 8:47 PM Beautiful @likeitrough

amalthea 04/21/20 at 8:47 PM real vavavoom legs

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:47 PM We talked a little bit about movement

andone 04/21/20 at 8:47 PM BTW i am 5'7/8 ish cause i;m not sure if shoes add an extra inch been a while since I did a height check blushes

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 8:48 PM @AlphaWolf smiles thank you wolf

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:48 PM So, how do you move? Do you clomp, trudge, limp, shuffle?

chrissa 04/21/20 at 8:49 PM crawl on all fours like a filthy pup, mostly. nods lots favorite way to move

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:49 PM Do you pad, dance, run on tiptoe

AlphaWolf 04/21/20 at 8:49 PM I clomp like a rhino

TLSCP 0421/20 at 8:49 PM glide like a whisper of evil intent

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:50 PM chrissa grins
TL, hot.

andone 04/21/20 at 8:50 PM I ...actually that's a tough one kissa

Ombra 04/21/20 at 8:50 PM I am way out of this league

tarryn(MHK) 04/21/20 at 8:50 PM Lol

andone 04/21/20 at 8:50 PM I kinda glide-stomp

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:50 PM that's why i do it, andy

AlphaWolf 04/21/20 at 8:50 PM In the mirror I move gracefully like a wolf

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:50 PM perfect, how does a wolf move?

andone 04/21/20 at 8:50 PM nods ah gotcha @kissa

AlphaWolf 04/21/20 at 8:51 PM Silently, with confidence

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:51 PM does he stalk?
i am a cat. i pad. i slink

AlphaWolf 04/21/20 at 8:51 PM Stalking his prey

TLSCP 0421/20 at 8:52 PM one moment resting in an overstuffed chair watching the fire its light both warming and dancing in My eyes, the next at your throat whispering My intent

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:52 PM god, she's scary

Ou812 04/21/20 at 8:52 PM Glides into room shoulders square as back straightens piercing blue eyes sparkler with mischief as he sizes up his prey

Master HidoiKaeru 04/21/20 at 8:52 PM i move deliberately...like an evil wraith in a foreboding sky

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 8:52 PM I move with purpose. My mirror shows that I move like there's music in my soul. Soft steps swaying hips a little shimmer and some shake

andone 04/21/20 at 8:53 PM I can glide unless I want to be heard.I'll move across so you don;t notice but when I think you should will just make the right amount of noise

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:53 PM likeitrough, pretty

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 8:53 PM depending on days. in public with clients, regardless of my pain level, I stand upright, glide with purpose, look at you in the eye, offer a smile, a firm handshake, and let you feel, you are the only one in my world. The rest of the world has melted away and I am your captive audience

chrissa 04/21/20 at 8:53 PM fans my face as the Dom/mes describe themselves

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 8:53 PM @kissa thank you
biting my bottom lip

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:54 PM as we move across a room, we highlight what we look like. We can also use this time to give hints about the room. There's a fire roaring/embers glowing, the doors are flung wide, letting in the call of night birds and the night blooming jasmine
you are using your senses in describing yourself, and in describing what your senses are sensing
also, use that time to describe what you're wearing, if anything. People in shoes don't feel the cold marble tiles. Someone in a thin silk dress might feel a chill coming across the canal. Someone nude is going to be warmed by the fire

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 8:56 PM as a Domme to a submissive. I will cadence around you like a predator determining when they will have their prey. Whisper sexual teases in your ear. Lick one tongue narrowed to a point over an ear's cochlea fold, let out warm breath tease behind the now begun to chill wetness. Asking you "what is it you desire?" Knowing full well I will eke out the teasing as long as possible with a mirthful laugh of denial

chrissa 04/21/20 at 8:57 PM shivers damn, Ms.

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 8:57 PM Wow

Ombra 04/21/20 at 8:57 PM O.o

kissa 04/21/20 at 8:58 PM also, it's REALLY important to note this stuff down. Put it on paper or in a journal file so your body gets used to thinking in those terms.
When you do it, just run with it. Then, go back and see if you can ramp it up or do you need to tone it down because you have five adjectives and ten adverbs in one sentence?

andone 04/21/20 at 8:59 PM I can hear the crackle of the fire and the call of the night birds. I can see shadows illuminated by the light of the fire with my own just on the outside of it. My attire is a dark coat with a nice vest and suit underneath . I note who are around the room and listen and observing learning and waiting to speak wanting to exchange knowledge

chrissa 04/21/20 at 8:59 PM Is there a point when it's just... way too descriptive for it to enhance the mood? You know?

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:00 PM then, go through and see if you have passive or active verbs. A passive verb is a "to be" verb. Passive verbs suck. I want to dance vs, i need to glide.

tarryn(MHK) 04/21/20 at 9:00 PM this is a challenge...lol

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:00 PM chrissa, when the paper has painted itself purple with the blood ofyour adjectives, it's too much

chrissa 04/21/20 at 9:00 PM Like sometimes I don't want to read or write a Jane Austen novel
laughing

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 9:01 PM @chrissa you do what works for you but at the same time, make sure someone can see in your eyes too

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:01 PM RP needs to get the point across without typing a hundred words

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:01 PM okay, so there's all of this painting... all of this beauty... but you still have to Get The Nice Man A Fucking Rum and Coke.

SleepMonger 04/21/20 at 9:01 PM
Yeah that's my experience too. If you're waiting 20 minutes for a response it's too much

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:02 PM so compact powerful poetic words will strike a nerve

chrissa 04/21/20 at 9:02 PM Yeah, I think I usually try to match a partner, though I'll be honest... it's rare to find such a descriptive dominant match around. But man, it's worshipped once I do find them. grin

tarryn(MHK) 04/21/20 at 9:02 PM It was a topic discussion general ping @subvicky

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:02 PM smiles
Folks, please go back and reread what Miss TL just said.

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 9:02 PM @chrissa I used to RP with a Dominant. We were equals with the understanding, no domination games on each other

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:02 PM I try to keep RP responses to three sentences max

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 9:03 PM I walk towards You with fire in my eyes. Gliding forward the wind presses the silk of my white shift against my body. Whisps of hair curl around my shoulders, the breeze brings a slight chill. I feel a cool grass beneath my feet. Watching you..waiting

andone 04/21/20 at 9:03 PM I agree with what @TLSCP

Ou812 04/21/20 at 9:03 PM Watches the fire flicker in her eyes as callous hand touches soft smooth skin scent filling his lungs and soft whisper escapes his lips warm breath touching her skin

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:03 PM likeitrough, beautiful

AlphaWolf 04/21/20 at 9:04 PM @likeitrough oh my

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:04 PM so, finally, you get your shapely, curvy, well-rounded, sauntering ass to the kitchen. Good.

Ou812 04/21/20 at 9:05 PM @kissa:rofl:

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:05 PM rum and coke - does he want a specific kind of rum/whisky/single malt/beer? Did you ask? Should you?

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:06 PM yep, before you leave his general area, ask. And do you want diet, coke zero, Mexican coke with real sugar? Get the order right before you leave

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 9:06 PM comes under the heading, don't assume

chrissa 04/21/20 at 9:07 PM right, right... we're serving a drink... shakes my head thinking of other service

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 9:07 PM @likeitrough believe it or not I have a tea service test

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:07 PM and I will not help after you have accepted the task

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 9:07 PM @chrissa we know you are a dirty girl but now and then give your brain a bath

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 9:07 PM @Song Yung very intriguing Miss

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:07 PM Get a glass. The Garden has everything you need, be it a crystal goblet, a highball, a pilsner, a bota, crater, demitase... so know what kind of vessel this drink needs to come in. Don't serve a rum and coke in a glass made for a long island iced tea

tarryn(MHK) 04/21/20 at 9:08 PM Yea...I'm going to fail this lol

chrissa 04/21/20 at 9:08 PM @Song Yung laughing it needs a hot, long one...

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:08 PM this means take a while and study a bartending guide. You don't have to be perfect. Just sort of know what goes in a martini glass vs. a highball.
and what a highball glass *is.

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:09 PM or at least the different glasses

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:09 PM right
it's not rocket surgery, smiles, just a wee bit of studying.

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:09 PM and if you really want to up your game traditional ways to serve some alcohol
i.e. a snifter of cognac served tilted over a steaming cup of water

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:10 PM Have a clue on what the better brands of booze are and where they are from. In a pinch, hit google really fast or ask a friend to in PM
TL, i woudn't even want the water. A good cognac is going to be divine with only the warmth of a hand on the snifter
So, real fast. Get me a good rum. NOW!

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:11 PM and what your D likes to drink, I like a particular type of single malt, it is not expensive but I do like the flavor

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 9:11 PM @likeitrough I literally have about 7 different tea flavors. Some I brew to drink hot or cold. some are strictly hot. each requires a bit of a temp range difference. depending on mood, I may add additional ingredients to marry with the tea steeping. I usually encourage, keep a notepad on hand to refer back to because if I reorder a drink the same way, I want to short order without the details again

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:12 PM tick tock

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:12 PM Bacardi Dark select

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:12 PM ding ding

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:12 PM served over ice

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:12 PM tip: google "expensive rum"

chrissa 04/21/20 at 9:13 PM Macallan rare cask, neat with just a sprinkle of fresh water to open up the aroma

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:13 PM it may not be the best tasting, but it's going to be up there

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:13 PM rum is not that expensive

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:13 PM competitively

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:13 PM Makers mark single batch, neat in a rocks glass

Song Yung 04/21/20 at 9:13 PM I liked a spiced rum with ginger ale. I call it Morgan and Ginger (has a cream soda taste if balanced right)

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:13 PM chrissa, that's a whisky
smiles i asked for rum

chrissa 04/21/20 at 9:14 PM yes, i know. it's scotch. sorry, was i supposed to describe something specific?
i thought we were all throwing things out there lololol

Ou812 04/21/20 at 9:14 PM Crown or marker mark smirks

AlphaWolf 04/21/20 at 9:14 PM @Song Yung that sounds good

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:14 PM so, really, google is your best friend if you don't keep brands in your head

chrissa 04/21/20 at 9:14 PM i stepped away to get ice cream and didn't read back. heh

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:14 PM the point is to know what your D is going to want to drink and how

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 9:14 PM @Song Yung that sounds amazing Miss. I love a cup of good tea in the mornings when I'm outside on the porch in the crisp air

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:15 PM If your Dom has a favorite, serve that. If he wants Wild Turkey, give it to him. If he wants Johnny Walker Blue... good taste, but ditto.

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 9:15 PM @Song Yung my apologies on the Miss

Master HidoiKaeru 04/21/20 at 9:15 PM or good old JD

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:16 PM so rum and coke, we have a bacardi dark with diet coke

chrissa 04/21/20 at 9:16 PM oof. Johnny and I have bad blood after a wild night in SF

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:16 PM ugh mixers
I can not have tequila

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:17 PM get the glass - Master HK, that's swill - make sure it's clean and not chipped. Some slaves run it over a body part to check. YMMV. The Garden does not allow chipped or dirty glassware to be on any of her shelves. If you're in a tavern serving paga... well, check
Does it need ice? Is the coke cold? What does cold do to the human body? Do you need to bend over to get something? Again, you are describing movement
What is your D type going to see when you bend over or open the freezer?
and shake it like a polaroid picture

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:20 PM in public or in private?

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:20 PM step by step, two fingers of rum, fill the glass with diet coke, set the can down, watch it, smell it, listen to it.
smiles YMMV, TL
rum is a beautiful color, so is coke, if you look at it in the sun. When they combine, you can hear the fizz, you can smell the rum
use your senses
either use a tray or both hands (because it is going to a Dom/me's hands and lips, it's now a precious commodity, and saunter/pad/stroll/shimmey back across the room and kneel

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:23 PM three long round slices of ice rattle at the bottom of the glass, they crack as the warm amber liquid mixes around them like a veil, the cocktail is finished with a splash of dark soda fizzling at the top of the glass

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:23 PM pretty
now a kajira might take that ice, and suck the corners into curves so it doesn't hurt Master's lips. she might run a cube around her nipple and giggle as her dusky nipple pearls tightly before dropping into the glass
If you can increase the temperature without taking too much time, do it

chrissa 04/21/20 at 9:25 PM
but what if a Master doesn't want any part of a filthy little slut tainting his drink? :blush: make it enticing in the movements that aren't directly sexual?

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:26 PM rolls a single cube across a bare nipple smiling as the areola shrinks and the nipple stands to a proud attention

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:26 PM now, you're on your knees to serve. A kajira kneels in one of two specific ways. Nadu means "kneel". She's going to kneel with her thighs as far apart as she can get them, or she's going to kneel in tower position, with her knees together. A virgin or untrained kajira is going to be in tower

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:27 PM chrissa, then don't taint it. Serve it. Describe yourself, but don't touch stuff. Use tongs on the ice. Inspect the glass with only your eyes.

chrissa 04/21/20 at 9:28 PM nodding thanks lovely

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:28 PM we're not going to worry about sweetening the rim because that's kajira 202, not 101.
Press the glass to your belly to enflame the fire inside you, press the glass to your heart to say a prayer or a wish for him, press the glass to your lips to kiss the base or side of the glass as a reminder of your service and place as slave.

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 9:30 PM Looking over my shoulder as I pull down the whiskey glass smiling softly. Sauntering to the freezer, hips swaying,getting ice. 3 cubes kiss the glass as I lick the rim watching Him. Pouring 3 fingers with a wink and a blown kiss.....

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:30 PM Do not ever presume to kiss where a Master's lips will go.

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 9:30 PM @kissa too late
@kissa why?

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:31 PM laughs* use a clean cloth to wipe away the evidence of your playful passion
because you are a submissive or slave. That glass is for a Master or Mistress's lips, not yours.

chrissa 04/21/20 at 9:32 PM purrs

likeitrough 04/21/20 at 9:32 PM Hmmm ok

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:33 PM looks at chrissa, dark eyes dancing with humor or if you're a filthy little pup or kajira, your lips are unworthy of such an honor.

chrissa 04/21/20 at 9:33 PM shivers and melts the best

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:35 PM Lift the glass/platter/cup/bota up to the D type's level and present it. If he or she is in conversation, don't interrupt. They aren't blind. They see you. Just wait. If they are focused on you, Thank them for the opportunity to serve and quench their thirst, sate their hunger.
a kajira in a tavern will also offer herself, because a slave's services also come with the price of the paga. If you feel the need, go for it.

chrissa 04/21/20 at 9:36 PM what is paga?

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:36 PM paga is a Gorean drink. Kind of whiskey, kind of beer. Served hot or room temperature.

chrissa 04/21/20 at 9:37 PM oh ok

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:37 PM a tavern slave is called a paga slave, because that's served a LOT

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:38 PM much like Klingon blood wine

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:38 PM wait to be dismissed. If the D type doesn't notice that you're still kneeling there, ask if you may return to the furs or serve another.
shudders

AlphaWolf 04/21/20 at 9:39 PM @TLSCP yes!

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:39 PM Sul Paga: This alcoholic drink is made from suls, a vegetable like a potato. It is most like strong vodka or moonshine. It is clear, almost tasteless, and very strong. It is served at room temperature.

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:39 PM The Basic steps of a serve: ask what the M wants. ask how they want it. back up, stand up, get to the kitchen. Make the thing. Get back to the M type, kneel. Present.
sul paga is different

TLSCP 0421/20 at 9:40 PM tasteless because after You drink it you pass out before telling anyone what it tastes like

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:40 PM okay, any questions
lolololol
nope? okay. You folks were AMAZING! Great job on the mirror parts! You all were fantastic!

chrissa 04/21/20 at 9:42 PM This was super fun and interactive

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:42 PM Seriously, i applaud everyone that was brave enough to pipe up

Ombra 04/21/20 at 9:42 PM I still draw a blank even with the magic mirror

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:42 PM This is hard and it takes practice.

chrissa 04/21/20 at 9:42 PM Are there any tips for the D-types in formality?

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:42 PM Ombra, Sir, you can do it. Just close your eyes.

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:43 PM When in doubt, overcompensate, chrissa. Be OVERLY formal

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:43 PM If you want to practice, i'm here. Drop me a DM and we can chat about it

SleepMonger 04/21/20 at 9:44 PM I suppose now I'm going to have to spend a bit of more time in il-solaio to enjoy watching you ply your trade

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:44 PM this is something i actually really love. Since this isn't a Home Stone, the kajirae aren't in competition and i'm not going to lose out on the next single Master that comes in by teaching you how to do it.

kissa 04/21/20 at 9:45 PM you can practice with me or you can go into il Solaio to practice by cleaning

 

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