Penname: kissa [Contact] Real name:
Member Since: 07/11/2014
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Gender: female
Fetlife User Name: kissa_bites
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Stories by kissa
Summary:

9/24/22 Topic Chat on How to be a Dominant


Categories: Dominance, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4180 Read Count: 249
[Report This] Published: 10/09/2022 Updated: 10/09/2022
Summary:

9/17/22 Topic Chat What We Want to Tell Our Younger Selves


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy, The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 13381 Read Count: 258
[Report This] Published: 10/09/2022 Updated: 10/09/2022
Summary:

Long Distance Relationships are hard. D/s LDRs can be a lot harder.


Categories: Online D/s, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1801 Read Count: 413
[Report This] Published: 09/24/2020 Updated: 09/24/2020
Summary:

The definition of vetting is simply: "make a careful and critical examination of (something)" in this case, it's a potential partner.

 


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2307 Read Count: 455
[Report This] Published: 09/20/2020 Updated: 09/20/2020
Summary:

GOR: Slaves as Treasured Property    7/15/20


Categories: On and Off Gor > Kajirae, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2096 Read Count: 392
[Report This] Published: 09/19/2020 Updated: 09/19/2020
Summary:

From ancient Japan to hitchin' in L.A., shibari has an interesting history.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM History, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3716 Read Count: 350
[Report This] Published: 09/19/2020 Updated: 09/19/2020
Summary:

tarryn{MHK} and kissa divide and discuss punishment and play punishment - funishment. 


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, General, Lifestyle Info, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2831 Read Count: 642
[Report This] Published: 04/26/2020 Updated: 06/03/2020
Summary:

Kajira kissa explains and demonstrates the magic mirror method of finding your own beauty and grace while serving online. April 21, 2020.


Categories: Submission > Self Training, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics, On and Off Gor > Kajirae > Serves
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, Gor, Online
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 5783 Read Count: 413
[Report This] Published: 04/22/2020 Updated: 04/22/2020
Summary:

"Shame means ‘I am bad' while guilt means ‘I did something bad'. Within the BDSM lifestyle, we can come across and work through shame on several fronts. Feb 25, 2020


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3167 Read Count: 434
[Report This] Published: 04/18/2020 Updated: 04/18/2020
Summary:

The Garden is a medium to high protocol chatroom. kissa discusses what that means. April 5, 2020


Categories: Online D/s > Protocol, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General, How-To, Protocol
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4404 Read Count: 490
[Report This] Published: 04/17/2020 Updated: 04/17/2020
Summary:

Is it possible for a submissive to be feminist? Is feminism possible in D/s? Oct 23, 2019 by kissa


Categories: Submission, The Lifestyle > Philosophy, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3828 Read Count: 498
[Report This] Published: 04/17/2020 Updated: 04/17/2020
Summary:

Signalling erotic intent with clothing. April 15, 2020 by kissa and little dragon


Categories: How-To > A Trip to the Dungeon, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: Fetish, For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 5663 Read Count: 640
[Report This] Published: 04/17/2020 Updated: 04/17/2020
Summary:

Pet play as a fetish Feb 19, 2020 by kissa


Categories: The Lifestyle > Pets and Animals, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2324 Read Count: 400
[Report This] Published: 02/21/2020 Updated: 03/08/2020
Two Absinthe Serve Methods by kissa Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Absinthe may be served in two different ways. Elaborate Gorean style serves for each style.


Categories: On and Off Gor > Kajirae > Serves
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor, Online
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2527 Read Count: 5631
[Report This] Published: 09/06/2015 Updated: 10/01/2015
Serving Scotch by kissa Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Tantric Lover Sir dropped his drink. A slave serves a new one.    


Categories: On and Off Gor > Kajirae > Serves
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 803 Read Count: 16
[Report This] Published: 09/06/2015 Updated: 09/09/2015
my "Sir" by kissa Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Many dominants think they have the right to demand honorifics. I disagree.


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 379 Read Count: 2079
[Report This] Published: 09/05/2015 Updated: 09/05/2015
A Switch Comment by kissa Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

About switches and the sometimes hassle they get.


Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1795 Read Count: 1750
[Report This] Published: 07/22/2014 Updated: 07/22/2014
The Dance for The Silver Dragon by kissa Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

His submissve dances.


Categories: Online D/s > Serves and Dances
Characters: None
Content Notes: Online
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2126 Read Count: 17
[Report This] Published: 07/22/2014 Updated: 07/22/2014
Greeting by kissa Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

she greets him in the garden


Categories: Online D/s > Serves and Dances
Characters: None
Content Notes: Online
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 771 Read Count: 2149
[Report This] Published: 07/22/2014 Updated: 07/22/2014
Summary:

A transcript of the ceremony guided by Benevolent Goddess. By Benevolent Goddess, jenna, Master E and Thomas.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Ceremonies
Characters: None
Content Notes: Ceremony
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1603 Read Count: 32
[Report This] Published: 07/22/2014 Updated: 07/22/2014
Pole Dance for Master by kissa Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Contest entry fr the dance contest on Oct 4, 2007 in the TM ballroom.


Categories: Online D/s > Serves and Dances
Characters: None
Content Notes: Online
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1625 Read Count: 19
[Report This] Published: 07/22/2014 Updated: 07/22/2014
a kajira serves by kissa Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

a sample, red silk serve


Categories: On and Off Gor > Kajirae > Serves
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 687 Read Count: 21
[Report This] Published: 07/22/2014 Updated: 07/22/2014
Summary:

A slave begs for her Beloved's collar.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Ceremonies
Characters: None
Content Notes: Ceremony
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1344 Read Count: 39
[Report This] Published: 07/22/2014 Updated: 07/22/2014
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