Addresses the question: I don't always feel dominant or submissive. Does that mean I'm not one?
Another in the D/s Lighthouse lecture series. By Jade.
Lord Colm addresses the common notion that a dominant must first spend time as a sub in order to be effective.
A must-read for dominants. Insights into the care and feeding of the submissive from a submissive's point of view. What Do I Need From My Dominant? The Care and Feeding of a submissive.
A touching recount of a difficult lesson learned.
LES IS MORE(m) shares his insight on some of the obligations of being a dominant.
A very personal gift offered by jade to her Master and shared here for our guests' benefit.
A description of the beauty of formal collaring ceremonies.
The closed-minded dominant is one who, for whatever reason, has stopped learning
jade offers a glimpse into the ceremony and symbolism of an ancient bonding ritual.
jade offers insight into the benefits of a submissive's journal.
An explanation of the Taken in Hand theory of D/s consciously and consensually male controlled sexually exclusive monogamous relationship in which the man’s power is real and for the purpose of cultivating a deeply connected, fully engaged relationship.
A peek into the expectations of formal training
It's time we looked at the difference
Important advice for the beginning submissive. Advice, submissive to submissive.
Brief explanation of their use and some samples.
Words of warning on making the transition from virtual to real-life relationships.
Preparing for those special encounters.
A wonderful guide to erotic spanking.
Some Enlightenment About Darkness And Loss of Good Sense
A Key to Success
Must it Always be so Physical?
Discussion on the benefits of position training within a D/s relationship. Conversations Between Mentor and Charge
The growth of a submissive from her own introspection. By chelle{KM}
Lord Colm throws the penalty flag on some of the more inane and senseless online practices.