A very insightful look at how we create online partners in our own image--and end up disappointed when they don't quite end up being what we thought they were.
How can you tell if s/he is right for you?
The beginning lessons in domination.
At last, an owner's manual for submissives. Some insight for your Dominant on what makes you tick.
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by Jade. The need for the "dark side" of D/s--Coming to terms with the beast that lurks within.
Addresses the question: I don't always feel dominant or submissive. Does that mean I'm not one?
Another in the D/s Lighthouse lecture series. By Jade.
Lord Colm addresses the common notion that a dominant must first spend time as a sub in order to be effective.
A must-read for dominants. Insights into the care and feeding of the submissive from a submissive's point of view. What Do I Need From My Dominant? The Care and Feeding of a submissive.
A touching recount of a difficult lesson learned.
LES IS MORE(m) shares his insight on some of the obligations of being a dominant.
A very personal gift offered by jade to her Master and shared here for our guests' benefit.
A description of the beauty of formal collaring ceremonies.
The closed-minded dominant is one who, for whatever reason, has stopped learning
jade offers a glimpse into the ceremony and symbolism of an ancient bonding ritual.
jade offers insight into the benefits of a submissive's journal.
A good beginning on getting started.
An explanation of the Taken in Hand theory of D/s consciously and consensually male controlled sexually exclusive monogamous relationship in which the man’s power is real and for the purpose of cultivating a deeply connected, fully engaged relationship.
A peek into the expectations of formal training
It's time we looked at the difference
Important advice for the beginning submissive. Advice, submissive to submissive.
Brief explanation of their use and some samples.
Words of warning on making the transition from virtual to real-life relationships.
Preparing for those special encounters.