This list is for the potential sub/slave desiring to enter into full service to me. It includes play potential's that the sub/slave should believe themselves to be capable of handling.
Your reputation within this community began the moment that you decided to explore this community and made your first contact within it.
When an individual feels a sense of 'removal of power' or 'removal of control' toward that which inflicts or appears to inflict upon them sorrow, suffering, burdens or oppression they may seek or tend to seek a vent to release or lessen the full measure of that binding over them.
It is curious to explore one of the mysteries of queening and to see within its example so many intriguing concepts and ideas
How to be pure? Especially with the context or layer of yet another abstract concept - submission.
Public Play or scening is a fairly popular past-time for members of the D/s or BDSM community. It is for many an opportunity to socialize with other members of the local community
How do I protect my Master from charges of abuse or wrongful death if should I die there are marks on my body, which there generally are? I am older, I could easily have a heart attack . . .
For 'sex' or 'scening' to be a meaningful experience there must be an investment or belief in its intrinsic value.
During a recent all Dominant gathering a comment was offered regarding the 'stripping of pride' as part of punishment for a submissive. The comment disturbed me and has lingered in my mind.
In many ways a human being can be fairly compared to a computer. It is possible to consider a persons 'hardware' to be the structure produced by the DNA coding at conception.
Present is a command issued to and used by the submissive to formally present of themselves to their Dominant. This command or the physical body position can take many different forms often depending on the situation which exists when the command is issued by the Dominant.
Many forms of BDSM scening involve the intense involvement of the skin and tissues of the submissive/slave in the scene. A newcomer to BDSM often brings with them all of the images they have seen, read about or heard often through pornographic films, dime store erotica books and tales stretched till they reek like old fish
How to deal with doms who took money from his sub and made false promises, and also what to do if a dom tries to defame your character if you mention to others that he took money from you and will not pay you back.
A Poacher is loosely defined as a person who trespasses or steals illegally or wrongfully. This is a willful act in full knowledge that such property belongs or is the property of another.
Together these elements form the 'Seductions', a presentation by the submissive aspect to encourage or lure the engagement of action by others in the form of an exchange of vital energy.
Can a man be a Dominant if he is confined to a wheelchair?
Performance is a dramatic representation or exhibition of an action, role or character presented to, toward and for an audience.
A few discipline tips
Outing is a term most frequently associated with members of the gay or lesbian community when they voluntarily or involuntarily reveal their sexual orientation publicly.
Belief may suggest certitude and full trust and confidence in the source whether supportive evidence exists or not.
Oath: A solemn attestation of the truth or inviolability of one's words.
What happens if you are a new submissive and do not know what your 'soft limits' <please read article on website titled soft limits> are? How can you pre-decide what to identify as a limit?
Frequently I work with people who... are concerned that their desire to submit will wane.
Self mutilating submissives. Mutilate: To cut off or permanently destroy a limb. Cripple. To cut up or alter radically so as to make imperfect.
The decision to abstain from commitment should not bring censure upon the individual if that person is honest in expressing that fact to those they interact with.