i've heard both yes and no answers and the reasons behind the answers ...
Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7
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Content Notes: D/s-M/s
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Completed: Yes Word count: 997 Read Count: 1693
Rating: Conservative
Stories
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Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7
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Content Notes: D/s-M/s
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 997 Read Count: 1693
Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 997 Read Count: 1693
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2017 Updated: 10/01/2017
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Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
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Completed: Yes Word count: 1351 Read Count: 1453
That word, it does not mean what you think it means.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1351 Read Count: 1453
[Report This] Published: 09/30/2017 Updated: 09/30/2017
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Categories: Submission
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Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2789 Read Count: 1806
Kim discusses what a submissive is and does.
Categories: Submission
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Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2789 Read Count: 1806
[Report This] Published: 09/30/2017 Updated: 09/30/2017
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Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
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Content Notes: For Beginners
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1809 Read Count: 1611
The basics and definitions.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
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Content Notes: For Beginners
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1809 Read Count: 1611
[Report This] Published: 09/30/2017 Updated: 09/30/2017
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
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Content Notes: How-To
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 34 Read Count: 1545
A few knots, showing how they are made.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
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Content Notes: How-To
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 34 Read Count: 1545
[Report This] Published: 07/16/2017 Updated: 07/16/2017
Summary: A semi-fantastical look at the reality of being a pro Dominatrix.
Categories: Dominance
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Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1150 Read Count: 1987
Categories: Dominance
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Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1150 Read Count: 1987
[Report This] Published: 06/15/2017 Updated: 06/18/2017
Summary: For those who are interested in service submission, it can be very difficult to find any sort of learning or teachings on service.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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Content Notes: General
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 928 Read Count: 2137
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 928 Read Count: 2137
[Report This] Published: 06/04/2017 Updated: 06/13/2017
Service Submission Series: The Excellence of Elocution by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary: Elocution is the execution of expressive speech - pronunciation, articulation, vocalisation, intonation, modulation, tone and style.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1007 Read Count: 2028
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1007 Read Count: 2028
[Report This] Published: 06/04/2017 Updated: 06/13/2017
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Categories: Dominance > Daddy & Mommy Dom/mes
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Content Notes: FemDom
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1024 Read Count: 2372
There are a lot of ideas out there as to what a Mommy Domme is, a lot of preconceived ideas probably based on talking to third party or biased others, or, God forbid, porn. Here's mine...
Categories: Dominance > Daddy & Mommy Dom/mes
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Content Notes: FemDom
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1024 Read Count: 2372
[Report This] Published: 06/04/2017 Updated: 06/13/2017
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Categories: How-To > Protocol
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Content Notes: For Beginners, General
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Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1788 Read Count: 5498
A fast guide to the rules and protocols you might encounter in a leather/BDSM/fet gathering with some do's and don'ts.
Categories: How-To > Protocol
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Content Notes: For Beginners, General
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Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1788 Read Count: 5498
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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Content Notes: How-To
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Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2572 Read Count: 5675
There is no one way to give service or execute tasks but here are what UNG considers the 5 commandments for service
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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Content Notes: How-To
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Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2572 Read Count: 5675
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
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Categories: Dominance, Submission, The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
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Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2605 Read Count: 7253
We need to start supporting, fostering, being a patron of Dominants because they are so cynical that they can't recognize true submission any more and some tips on how to do so.
Categories: Dominance, Submission, The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
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Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2605 Read Count: 7253
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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Content Notes: General, How-To
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1416 Read Count: 1719
What Are the Characteristics of a Service Submissive and Why?
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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Content Notes: General, How-To
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1416 Read Count: 1719
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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Completed: Yes Word count: 557 Read Count: 2116
A few go to items that I like to always have on hand to tackle certain tasks or jobs.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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Content Notes: How-To
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 557 Read Count: 2116
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
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Categories: Dominance, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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Content Notes: None
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 777 Read Count: 1851
If someone is offering service, it can often be very difficult for the receiver to know how to act, how to accept such service.
Categories: Dominance, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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Content Notes: None
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 777 Read Count: 1851
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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Content Notes: How-To
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 687 Read Count: 2308
One of the misconceptions of service submission is service means free labour. Service, has a cost - both seen and unseen - and it can be calculated.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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Content Notes: How-To
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 687 Read Count: 2308
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
How to Reply to a Personal Ad or Show Someone You're Interested by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
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Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1200 Read Count: 1868
Replying to a personal ad, or showing someone you're interested in him/her, has become a lost art.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
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Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1200 Read Count: 1868
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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Content Notes: How-To
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 562 Read Count: 3525
My reference notes from a talk I gave on Service Submission, to MAsT Sydney, July 2016.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
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Content Notes: How-To
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 562 Read Count: 3525
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
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Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
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Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1689 Read Count: 2023
How to spot a faker.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1689 Read Count: 2023
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
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Categories: Submission > Self Training
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Content Notes: D/s-M/s
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 960 Read Count: 1735
Exploring the whys of submissive self-ownership.
Categories: Submission > Self Training
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Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 960 Read Count: 1735
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: Impact
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1537 Read Count: 2072
A discussion of Impact Play.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
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Content Notes: Impact
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1537 Read Count: 2072
[Report This] Published: 05/26/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
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Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
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Content Notes: How-To, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 6118 Read Count: 1727
My most cited piece. This was an article I wrote in protest against some of the ugliness, visciousness and and stupidity I started seeing in the DC scene in the wake of the Black Rose Tenth Anniversary Celebration. Little did I know how universal the problems were in the community at large.....
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
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Content Notes: How-To, Lifestyle Info
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 6118 Read Count: 1727
[Report This] Published: 05/25/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
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Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
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Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 992 Read Count: 2737
Within the BDSM Scene there is a lot of conversation about consent. And there should be.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
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Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 992 Read Count: 2737
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
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Categories: How-To > Protocol
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Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3108 Read Count: 2678
General Kink Etiquette- These are some basic guidelines to follow.
Categories: How-To > Protocol
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Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3108 Read Count: 2678
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
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Categories: How-To > Checklists & Negotiation
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Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 770 Read Count: 2214
Please give this post some thought. Get to know your potential bottoms well enough to engage in these type conversations. Whatever you do, have some "Plan B" that will allow a rope bottom to get loose in the event of an emergency.
Categories: How-To > Checklists & Negotiation
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Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 770 Read Count: 2214
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016