A sample service contract for pet play.
Spotting the signs and dealing with the aftereffects of being used by a predator in the BDSM lifesyle.
Some of the things I am and do, because I am Dominant.
Combining BDSM and hypnosis and explaining a bit about hypnosis. The article is meant as an introduction, not a study-guide.
Aftercare for Tops and bottoms and the conditions both are offered and accepted in.
What is a Submissive? There is simply no way to define the exact nature of submission or the true nature of a submissive.
"i am really trying to learn how to be more dominant "what do i do?
Basics of Foot Torture
If these traits make my Dominance fake, then so be it.
Poly Relationships within the BDSM lifestyle.
Suggested things to bring to camp
Questions to Ask Before Sceneing For The First Time
Submission is submission. Dominance is dominance. It's an exchange of power between two people.
The Comprehensive List including all kinds of pet play
I define "male submissive" as a strong man who is dedicated to the comfort, pleasure, and well-being of a deserving woman
Becoming a new sub is a lot more dangerous than becoming a Dom, the major risks being a new Dom is looking like an idiot and possibly hurting a sub, the risk being a sub is getting raped and abused.
General guidelines that have served me well for over a decade, but this essay isn't the end-all, be-all of etiquette.
To all the newer members of our community, welcome, and use caution. Learn the proper way to do things, keep your temper in check, and live your life as a member of this community with honor and integrity.
Media is almost always an inaccurate in its representation of what actually transpires in BDSM activities, communities, events, or relationships.
An excerpt from my slave journal, regarding one way to categorize various drives to submit.
There are a lot of struggles becoming a Dom and not much guidance or information out there.
Two types of Dom Space
The details of a period of heightened training.
Written as personal reflection in light of a discussion list thread in which some people claimed that all power exchange is essentially fundamentally fantastical in nature. Chapter 2 is a followup.