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Summary:

This text has been prepared by an M.D. with a personal and professional interest in D/s. It covers topics such as safer sex, preventing and treating injury, and psychological safety. It is offered freely to the D/s community in the hopes of assisting others to find joy and fulfillment in a safe and sane environment.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2837 Read Count: 1
[Report This] Published: 05/16/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
How to tell your children by Hans Meijer Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0] New!
Summary:

Many parents have questions about how and when to inform their children about their erotic power exchange emotions.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2491 Read Count: 10
[Report This] Published: 05/16/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Hormonal reactions and influences by Hans Meijer Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0] New!
Summary:

When applied with care and knowledge, impulses such as pain, stress, fear and humiliation - in the right context - can and will create a chain reaction or hormonal rush


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3137 Read Count: 10
[Report This] Published: 05/16/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Summary:

You are either married, living together or have been long-time companions in some other form of relationship. Suddenly, you start to develop erotic power exchange emotions and fantasies. Or your partner does. Now what?


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: SSC/RACK
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: No Word count: 1375 Read Count: 11
[Report This] Published: 05/16/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Abuse vs Erotic Power Exchange by Hans Meijer Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0] New!
Summary:

Although discriminatory legislation sometimes likes to let you believe otherwise, there are fundamental differences between erotic power exchange and domestic violence (abuse). Erotic power exchange should always be based on the VICSS-concept. Anything else is abuse.


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1394 Read Count: 10
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Summary:

This section of the professional information, deals with the tension between law enforcement and consensual erotic power exchange.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 9214 Read Count: 37
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Summary:

Since erotic power exchange is attracting more interest in society, it is only logical the phenomena gets increased media coverage. In addition, the current trend - especially in audiovisual media - to try and cover more eroticism in general contributes extra to this trend


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1523 Read Count: 11
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
Summary:

Basic information about BDSM for legal and law inforcement in the liht of recent publicity and opening viewpoints concerning BDSM.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General
Series: BDSM Background Information, a series of articles from the POWERotics Foundation
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4204 Read Count: 11
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/16/2018
How safe are safewords? by Hans Meijer Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0] New!
Summary:

Is a safeword really a good safety measure? And another question: how safe is a safeword? And finally: isn't the BDSM community just a bunch of parrots, all repeating the same dogmas over and over again?    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 696 Read Count: 12
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/15/2018
Facts and Myths About BDSM Safety by Hans Meijer Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0] New!
Summary:

Not everything you find on the Internet, when looking for safety advice, is good information. Much of it in fact forms part of very persistent urban legends. Here is a simple list of first line safety issues: the myth as well as the facts.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2277 Read Count: 16
[Report This] Published: 05/15/2018 Updated: 05/15/2018
Hotwife Contract by ccbj69 Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A Hotwife contract that sets terms for a Hotwife lifestyle    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Contracts
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 749 Read Count: 8
[Report This] Published: 05/13/2018 Updated: 05/13/2018
Primal by HuntersParadox Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The primal lifestyle or sexual preference has one unified interpretation, it is the decision to focus or exist in a way that is primal, releasing oneself from all things that are not part of a person's core self.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2417 Read Count: 19
[Report This] Published: 04/30/2018 Updated: 04/30/2018
The Dominant by TorqueDom Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Traits of a Dominant


Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 540 Read Count: 18
[Report This] Published: 04/29/2018 Updated: 04/29/2018
Summary:

I think what's more important than a "new and improved" flashy label on the product, it's more important to read the ingredients carefully. You cant always tell by the title what you're going to wind up with inside.


Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 572 Read Count: 26
[Report This] Published: 04/29/2018 Updated: 04/29/2018
Summary:

A quick negotiation checklist pre-scene.


Categories: How-To > Checklists & Negotiation
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 760 Read Count: 25
[Report This] Published: 04/29/2018 Updated: 04/29/2018
Does the D/s Disappear? by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

How many times do we read or hear of people in long term D/s relationships saying that "there's no D/s anymore" "He doesn't Dominate me anymore" "she doesn't submit as readily as she used to" "life gets in the way" etc etc....


Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7 Relationships
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1326 Read Count: 158
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2017 Updated: 10/01/2017
The Role of a Mentor by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The word mentor gets brought up from time to time, and i have been thinking lately about what a mentor is, and what sort of role should a mentor play in someone's life    


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1213 Read Count: 148
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2017 Updated: 10/01/2017
Total Power Exchange. by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Many people in the lifestyle talk about Total Power Exchange, and the phrase seems fairly self explanatory. However it is not quite as simplistic as it sounds, and i believe that for many, there are varying degrees and ideas of what it actually is and how it actually works.


Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7 Relationships
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1388 Read Count: 166
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2017 Updated: 10/01/2017
Is Play Important in a 24/7? by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

There has been discussion about whether or not living in a 24/7 relationship means that play is not as important as a casual or part time D/s connection.


Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7 Relationships
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1479 Read Count: 147
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2017 Updated: 10/01/2017
Summary:

i've heard both yes and no answers and the reasons behind the answers ...


Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7 Relationships
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 997 Read Count: 159
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2017 Updated: 10/01/2017
Living 24/7 by MJsgirl Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

This article is my own personal view of living in a 24/7 relationship.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7 Relationships
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1804 Read Count: 17
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2017 Updated: 10/01/2017
Is BDSM all about SEX? by MJsgirl Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The question of whether or not BDSM is all about sex is one that often comes up on discussion boards, forums and in general conversation.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1288 Read Count: 13
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2017 Updated: 10/01/2017
Common Misconceptions by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

That word, it does not mean what you think it means.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1351 Read Count: 174
[Report This] Published: 09/30/2017 Updated: 09/30/2017
Introduction to Submission by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Kim discusses what a submissive is and does.


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2789 Read Count: 215
[Report This] Published: 09/30/2017 Updated: 09/30/2017
What Is BDSM by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The basics and definitions.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1809 Read Count: 152
[Report This] Published: 09/30/2017 Updated: 09/30/2017
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