It is such a complex biochemical process that it would be good for us to understand.
Your consent, as a gift and as abuse, with a Three Minute Game for couples.
For all the power that we Doms exercise, the greatest power of all is the power that we never use
Sharing: a gesture of goodwill.
Buttplugs are very effective ways to put somebody into submissive mind space.
Busting some common BDSM myths.
What is trust anyway why do we need it in BDSM.
Experience, giving, and receiving.
You don't get to submit - or dominate - only when you're in the mood.
I also said when not if, could it be an if at all?
As part of your negotiation, ask this question.
To fully consent, one must understand and anticipate all of the potential consequences.
One of the most fascinating aspects of BDSM is its ability to induce altered states of consciousness.
Just because you don't always submit, does not mean you are not A submissive
Consent is when a person freely agrees to something. When it comes to sex, consent is mandatory, every time.
Concerning Gaslighting
When you hear "spanking", you probably think of it in terms of punishment. Spankings can actually be more than that: punishment, funishment, and therapeutic.
The 6th amendment and the BDSM/kink/fetish community (aka sexual minorities)
A natural Dom has it come 'naturally' to him
Safewording isn't the end of the world
There's a widespread school of thought in BDSM that advocates punishment to correct misbehaviour on submissives. I don't believe it works, because punishment doesn't change behaviour.
A history of old European BDSM Houses.
Do not do plastic bag breath play!
A few tips to keep the spark alive and soothing for when you Dom is stressed.
You have got to learn the difference between wolves and puppies.