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Does the D/s Disappear? by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

How many times do we read or hear of people in long term D/s relationships saying that "there's no D/s anymore" "He doesn't Dominate me anymore" "she doesn't submit as readily as she used to" "life gets in the way" etc etc....


Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7 Relationships
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1326 Read Count: 38
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2017 Updated: 10/01/2017
The Role of a Mentor by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The word mentor gets brought up from time to time, and i have been thinking lately about what a mentor is, and what sort of role should a mentor play in someone's life    


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1213 Read Count: 46
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2017 Updated: 10/01/2017
Total Power Exchange. by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Many people in the lifestyle talk about Total Power Exchange, and the phrase seems fairly self explanatory. However it is not quite as simplistic as it sounds, and i believe that for many, there are varying degrees and ideas of what it actually is and how it actually works.


Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7 Relationships
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1388 Read Count: 41
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2017 Updated: 10/01/2017
Is Play Important in a 24/7? by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

There has been discussion about whether or not living in a 24/7 relationship means that play is not as important as a casual or part time D/s connection.


Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7 Relationships
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1479 Read Count: 54
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2017 Updated: 10/01/2017
Summary:

i've heard both yes and no answers and the reasons behind the answers ...


Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7 Relationships
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 997 Read Count: 38
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2017 Updated: 10/01/2017
Living 24/7 by MJsgirl Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

This article is my own personal view of living in a 24/7 relationship.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7 Relationships
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1804 Read Count: 4
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2017 Updated: 10/01/2017
Is BDSM all about SEX? by MJsgirl Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The question of whether or not BDSM is all about sex is one that often comes up on discussion boards, forums and in general conversation.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1288 Read Count: 0
[Report This] Published: 10/01/2017 Updated: 10/01/2017
Common Misconceptions by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

That word, it does not mean what you think it means.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1351 Read Count: 62
[Report This] Published: 09/30/2017 Updated: 09/30/2017
Introduction to Submission by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Kim discusses what a submissive is and does.


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2789 Read Count: 57
[Report This] Published: 09/30/2017 Updated: 09/30/2017
What Is BDSM by MJsgirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

The basics and definitions.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1809 Read Count: 61
[Report This] Published: 09/30/2017 Updated: 09/30/2017
Corwin's Knots by Greg Corwin Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A few knots, showing how they are made.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 34 Read Count: 114
[Report This] Published: 07/16/2017 Updated: 07/16/2017
Summary: A semi-fantastical look at the reality of being a pro Dominatrix.
Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1150 Read Count: 286
[Report This] Published: 06/15/2017 Updated: 06/18/2017
Summary: For those who are interested in service submission, it can be very difficult to find any sort of learning or teachings on service.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 928 Read Count: 264
[Report This] Published: 06/04/2017 Updated: 06/13/2017
Summary: Elocution is the execution of expressive speech - pronunciation, articulation, vocalisation, intonation, modulation, tone and style.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1007 Read Count: 234
[Report This] Published: 06/04/2017 Updated: 06/13/2017
Summary: There are a lot of ideas out there as to what a Mommy Domme is, a lot of preconceived ideas probably based on talking to third party or biased others, or, God forbid, porn. Here's mine...
Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: FemDom
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1024 Read Count: 221
[Report This] Published: 06/04/2017 Updated: 06/13/2017
Manners and Etiquette by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A fast guide to the rules and protocols you might encounter in a leather/BDSM/fet gathering with some do's and don'ts.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1788 Read Count: 670
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Service, My Style by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

There is no one way to give service or execute tasks but here are what UNG considers the 5 commandments for service


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2572 Read Count: 586
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Fostering Dominants by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

We need to start supporting, fostering, being a patron of Dominants because they are so cynical that they can't recognize true submission any more and some tips on how to do so.


Categories: Dominance, Submission, The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2605 Read Count: 587
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Why Serve? by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

What Are the Characteristics of a Service Submissive and Why?    


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1416 Read Count: 194
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
A Body Service Tutorial by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Provocative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Personal grooming is perhaps the most intimate duty that can be performed between a service submissive and the Dominant he/she is serving.    


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1168 Read Count: 9
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Summary:

A few go to items that I like to always have on hand to tackle certain tasks or jobs.    


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 557 Read Count: 197
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
On Receiving Service by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

If someone is offering service, it can often be very difficult for the receiver to know how to act, how to accept such service.    


Categories: Dominance, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 777 Read Count: 213
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Summary:

One of the misconceptions of service submission is service means free labour. Service, has a cost - both seen and unseen - and it can be calculated.    


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 687 Read Count: 206
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Summary:

Replying to a personal ad, or showing someone you're interested in him/her, has become a lost art.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1200 Read Count: 220
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Service Submission by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

My reference notes from a talk I gave on Service Submission, to MAsT Sydney, July 2016.    


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 562 Read Count: 206
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
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