Switching is a preference that does not seem to be gender-linked. If you're a switch in a relationship with a non-switch, here are some tips on how to make the relationship work.
Advice for new Fem Dommes, five examples of different emotional "styles" for the same scene.
Advice on deciding what kind of rope to use, and how to care for it.
Several sample contracts and a word on negotiation
Understanding the difference between abusive relationships and S/M
The importance and ritual of positioning the bottom for spanking
The three tenants of BDSM
What sub drop is and the effects of sub space and sub drop, and the importance of aftercare and self-care after a scene.
A useful and important safety and fetish checklist to complete before having a scene.
On the use of safewords to protect bottom and top during a scene.