Penname: Tammad Rimilia [Contact] Real name:
Member Since: 07/10/2014
Membership status: Member
Bio:

Tammad Rimilia the gentleman barbarian, essayist, top, bottom, artist, photographer, nd Renaissance man, died in a car accident Monday Nov 20, 2000. His site is archived on the web and has a great deal of wonderful information, instructios and photos.


Tammad's website fell several years ago and I have posted much, though not all, of his work here. On his site, he specifically asked that his readers be over the age of 21. His essays are all marked "Extreme" for that reason.



Gender: undisclosed
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Stories by Tammad Rimilia
Summary:

Here I show a basic Shinju (breast) bondage, which is comprised of multiple layers of rope, yet the Shinju ropes may be only a portion of a total bondage predicament, being combined with a torso harness, crotch (crupper) rope, and some kind of leg ropes.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 972 Read Count: 76
[Report This] Published: 06/29/2019 Updated: 06/30/2019
Summary:

The main concept in Japanese rope bondage is layering. Each portion of the bondage is built up out of several layers. Here I show a full bondage predicament, build up out of a Karada (body harness), Shinju, wrist, knee, and ankle restraints, finished with a hog-tie. The final chapter is an account from one of the rope models. 


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage
Series: None
Chapters: 3 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3852 Read Count: 210
[Report This] Published: 06/29/2019 Updated: 06/30/2019
Summary:

The knot not to tie! People commonly tie the granny knot when they are trying to tie the square knot instead, by Hot Pink


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 99 Read Count: 515
[Report This] Published: 06/29/2019 Updated: 06/30/2019
Summary:

The G-String tie is one of the simplest ways to bind someone, yet it is very easy to do


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 166 Read Count: 801
[Report This] Published: 06/29/2019 Updated: 06/30/2019
How To Tie A Square Knot by Tammad Rimilia Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

How To Tie A Square Knot by Hot Pink


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: Bondage
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 253 Read Count: 551
[Report This] Published: 06/29/2019 Updated: 06/30/2019
Summary:

Topping from the Bottom explained through analogy


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 385 Read Count: 71
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

The meaning and uses of a safeword


Categories: How-To > Safe Words
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 330 Read Count: 44
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Why on earth would a man want to wear a chastity belt?


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1530 Read Count: 161
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Information about using electrical toys in advanced BDSM play, and some of the risks involved.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Electro Play
Characters: None
Content Notes: Electro
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1868 Read Count: 49
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Having worn this style of chastity belt for quite a while now, I have written down answers to some of the most frequent questions I'm asked.


Categories: How-To > Equipment > Chastity
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1943 Read Count: 114
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

comparing and contrasting the Walter Goethals and Access Denied designs.


Categories: How-To > Equipment > Chastity
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1876 Read Count: 259
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Switching is a preference that does not seem to be gender-linked. If you're a switch in a relationship with a non-switch, here are some tips on how to make the relationship work.


Categories: Dominance, The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 340 Read Count: 41
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Advice for new Fem Dommes, five examples of different emotional "styles" for the same scene.


Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1905 Read Count: 59
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Advice on deciding what kind of rope to use, and how to care for it.


Categories: How-To > Equipment > All About Rope
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2471 Read Count: 44
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary: Consent is what elevates BDSM play between willing adults above abuse. Abuse is both wrong and illegal. Here I analyze and define the terms in the now-familiar BDSM slogan "Safe, Sane, and Consensual".
Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1561 Read Count: 31
[Report This] Published: 07/14/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Different party hosts have different rules. This essay reviews the spectrum of rules, provides some recommendations for "good party etiquette", and provides some tips for party hosts.


Categories: How-To > Protocol
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1468 Read Count: 61
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Hemp Rope by Tammad Rimilia Rated: Extreme [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A few observations on Japanese rope bondage


Categories: How-To > Equipment > All About Rope
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 228 Read Count: 41
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Helpful hints on how to make your first anal experience a pleasant one.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Sex Toys
Characters: None
Content Notes: Sex Toys
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 834 Read Count: 96
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

A report on a beautiful but mysterious and controversial presentation.


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM History
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1262 Read Count: 59
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

The demographics of who gets involved in BDSM and manners after a scene.


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1890 Read Count: 32
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Chastity, seduction, and the difference between men and women.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1096 Read Count: 41
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Some advice for a woman whose boyfriend is much more experienced, but whom she wants to learn to dominate


Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 849 Read Count: 42
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Is there a standard meaning to this act?


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 363 Read Count: 36
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

Important safety issues when leaving a bound "slave" alone -- minimize risk by providing an escape route.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Mind Fucks
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 755 Read Count: 69
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
Summary:

My original definitions for the phrases Top/Bottom and Dom/Sub. I've since learned that common usage for "Top/Bottom" is somewhat different than I describe here.


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1170 Read Count: 31
[Report This] Published: 07/15/2014 Updated: 07/16/2014
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