Scene speech is a language that we develop and use solely in-scene. We reserve this speech to augment and accentuate the atmosphere of the scene and often to heighten the sensory experience for both Dominant and submissive.
Sample Consensual Contract
Keep things exciting - & the chiropractor away
There is no one way to give service or execute tasks but here are what UNG considers the 5 commandments for service
My reference notes from a talk I gave on Service Submission, to MAsT Sydney, July 2016.
Exploring the whys of submissive self-ownership.
My most cited piece. This was an article I wrote in protest against some of the ugliness, visciousness and and stupidity I started seeing in the DC scene in the wake of the Black Rose Tenth Anniversary Celebration. Little did I know how universal the problems were in the community at large.....
Within the BDSM Scene there is a lot of conversation about consent. And there should be.
General Kink Etiquette- These are some basic guidelines to follow.
The most important thing of all is the accountability of the individuals engaged in the activity itself.
A single tail(ed whip) is any tapered, braided whip.
This is an article I wrote in 1997 addressing what I felt to be inadequacies in SM's most famous rubric.
I believe in the combination of both S.S.C. (Safe, Sane, Consensual) and R.A.C.K. (Risk, Aware/Assessed, Consensual, Kink).
What a submissive should expect.
Dealing with Fears and Phobias
Thoughts on being a good Dominant
Subspace, sub-drop and more.
Beginners advice from everyone's favourite Uncle James.
The dictionary finds one way to define "service" as "the action of helping or doing work for someone"
Sharing advice with the 'Newbs' that I wish I'd been given when first getting involved in this 'Lifestyle'.
How to be a Dom. It isn't all blowjobs, orders, and spankings.
Proper electric current causes both the stimulation of nerve endings and involuntary muscle stimulation.
What is a Submissive? There is simply no way to define the exact nature of submission or the true nature of a submissive.