Understanding subdrop and dealing with aftercare as a Service Top.
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Understanding subdrop and dealing with aftercare as a Service Top.
A quick negotiation checklist pre-scene.
Charter, rule, contract, and training documents for the House of Cadifor.
Accidents happen. This is one of them.
Often Dominants need a helping hand, a bit of encouragement, and a nudge in the right direction, from the significant others we call subs.
If the sub likes everything you dish out, and sees it as a game, but hates to be ignored... guess what...? Ignoring isn't abandoning - look at the differences.
What not to do for new Doms and how community leaders can handle the arrogant, clueless, and downright dangerous.
Exploring The Dunning-Kruger effect in BDSM.
Perception isn't everything, but it's something.
Rules I learned by observing people I respect as photographers, riggers, and tops.
How I approach the internal workings of a D/S relationship and the training of a Submissive.
This is the Play Table that I compiled and use in my House.
There are two viewpoints on personal safty in the lifestyle, but they aren't mutualy exclusive, no matter what some claim.
"Hey I'm a Dominant, you're a submissive. If you consensually hand power over to me, we can both play our respective roles productively."
We as a rope community keep educating both rope tops and bottoms.
Concerning the the self appointed title of submissive.
It's not all beer and skittles being a Dom.
What a submissive should expect.
A few simple rules.
Since the BDSM community is so diverse a subculture, are there people part of the BDSM culture that you(others) see as deviant?
I believe positive and responsible consent education is a constructive and effective tool to combat the sheer volume of occurrences of rape.
Defining the protocol of the end M/s relationship through either death or uncollaring.
Thoughts on being a good Dominant
D/s isn't easy, but it is rewarding. Know what you're getting into.
A few areas to think about as Dominants seek to hone themselves into even better versions of themselves