For the purposes of this article I will assume that you have successfully entered Sub-Space with your submissive and are now at the point where you would like to deepen that space or move your submissive 'within' Space.
That which directs ones thinking. A 'fixing - fixation' of ones state of mind.
The Meretricious Dominant mimic's the actions, attitudes and behaviors of others in order to lure people into positions of vulnerability primarily for cheap, easy sex with a kink twist.
I will give a very brief and in my opinion 'pitiful' definition /description of the origins of Tantra here and hope that those interested or intrigued will actively pursue further knowledge.
Exploring the Mental Orgasm and the submissive...
What is Your thinking on married Dommes and married submissives - each with vanilla and different spouses?
How can a Dominant help their submissive confront that last issue, the last piece of control they are clinging to, and overcome their hesitation or fear in relinquishing that control?
This eruption of self-realization, spontaneous experience of awakening or 'space' occurs to both Dominant and submissive equally.
We call it our 'little green eyed monster', jealousy is that which devours our relationships, inspiring mistrust, anxiety, fear.
A dicussion of Hepatitis in golden and brown showers.
Polygamy is a marriage or relationship in which a spouse of either sex may have more than one mate at the same time.
Kegels are exercises which involve the pelvic 'floor'. These muscles support the urethra, bladder, uterus and rectum.
The challenges and rewards of D/s at a distance.
The reality and effects of space for Doms and subs.
Getting into your community
Not all D/s is about sex.
When real life interferes with D/s
As mentioned tonight we're discussing Role Play in general and delving a bit into tips and tricks to improve yourself and have some more fun while playing (since that's what play is about, right?).
Common Mistakes New People Make
Traits of a slave
There are a number of characteristics which the submissive can and may display. Generally a majority of these traits will reveal in times of acute stress, anxiety, excitement or trauma
If this realm were merely about the offering of the body for the entertainment or sustenance of the illusion of submission then any actor could fill the role and play the game.
Wizarding rules as applied to D/s
Surrender: To cease trying to retain or control and agree to yield. To devote oneself entirely to 'something' without restraint, reservation or resistance.
Sexual availability in D/s dynamics.