Considering 24/7 dynamics
Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7
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Articles posted with KinkyInTheMiddle as co-author were orginally posted on that site.
Kinky In The Middle was a website devoted to the lives of little, middles, and their bigs. The owners focused on the DD/lg dynamic as well as their own polyamory.
About Illiana
Hiya! I'm Illiana Cole. I am Drake's and Dan's 38-year-old sassy, southern middle/little. I have been moving and grooving in the worlds of BDSM and polyamory since 1998. Yes, that long! I can't say that it's all been good. Some of it has been a downright '80s horror movie! But through it all, I have learned and grown a lot. I hope to help others on this path by putting those lessons out into the world.
I am also a complete geek. When I am not running the blog or acting as our family's Home Executive, I can be found playing Pathfinder or The Sims 4, watching Doctor Who (I can't get enough River Song, y'all!), doing any craft that involves a needle or a hook, and/or cuddling one of my three crazy dogs! You can contact me here on Kinky In The Middle, on Twitter as @kinkymiddle, on Fetlife, on Facebook, or by email.
About Drake
Greetings, I am Drake Addams. I am Illiana’s Dragon, or Draggy, which is our term for me as her Daddy Dom. I am a 31-year-old switch. I have been dabbling in BDSM for about 10 years as a submissive, and I am still relatively new to really getting into D/s as a lifestyle and doing it properly. So, I am learning right along with all of you! My hope with this blog is to let others see a different view of this lifestyle and, maybe, let them know they are not alone in this great big sea.
When I am not blogging or toying with Illiana, I play video games and tabletop RPGs (mostly Pathfinder currently). I can be found either in front of my computer or reading a book on my Kindle most of the time. Currently, I am reachable here on Kinky In The Middle or Fetlife.
Considering 24/7 dynamics
The challenges and rewards of D/s at a distance.
The reality and effects of space for Doms and subs.
Getting into your community
Not all D/s is about sex.
When real life interferes with D/s
Wizarding rules as applied to D/s
Sexual availability in D/s dynamics.
Handling conflict in D/s
This is your life; give your precious commodities your way!
Using safewords and gestures
The art of not being a bull in the D/s china shop.
Addressing drop in Doms and subs
Let's talk boundaries and limits
A different view. D/s, polyamory, and an exit plan.
There is more to dominance to getting your way
How to move forward after a dynamic ends.
What does it mean to me
Orgasm control and its rewards.
Edge play within the BDSM lifestyle
A view from both sides of the slash
The importance of learning to be a Dom.
The art of edge play
Finding rituals and tasks in D/s dynamics
Leading and following on the D/s path