In the past I have read countless articles, books and opinions on the difference between a slave and a submissive, everyone seems to have a point of view or a "standard" for a slave. Yet with so many different ideas and perspectives, what really is a slave, or better yet who?
Are D-types control freaks? Is it a power trip? Is being a control freak a lack of trust issue or something else? Can S-types be control freak? How does being in control and being a control freak differ? Can you be a dominant personality and not want to have control?
Questions for a submissive/bottom before a scene.
When you wish a specific behavior to occur you must use specific words. Don't vs. Stop, Nude vs. Naked, Humiliation VS Degradation, Dehumanization VS Depersonalization, Want VS Need
To me an internet relationship is more of a role playing game, one where there is no risk, no possibility of failure.
As you can see there are a lot of hidden meanings in different phrases and statements that individuals use and they may or may not realize the full weight of what they are stating.
What is a Dominant's moral obligation to his or her slave?
Many individuals prefer multiple slaves/subs within the BDSM lifestyle; how to best control and govern the slaves within one's household.
Face slapping is an art. How-to tips.
Most dungeons hold many dangers, by their very design they encourage pain and suffering, but you must do all that is within your power to make sure that the playroom and the instruments of torture that you use are kept clean and as sanitary as possible to avoid unintentional harm.
An Experience in British Tea Service. A history, instructions and protocol, and recipes.
The ways in which I spot an extreme submissive who is not aware of what she is yet.
Helping those in the Kink community recognize and embrace Primals, and help other, unknowing, Primals to self-identify and realize they are not alone.
How to do a very fast Futomomo "fat thigh" tie and therefore is often used during performances.
A lot of newbies think that DD/lg is simply calling someone Daddy/Mommy and having age regression interests such as sippy cups, coloring books, pacifiers, etc. A lot of them have no idea that what they're interested in is ageplay and not the DD/lg dynamic
[Reviews - 1] In short, if its all about YOU, and your needs, you need to pay. If it is all about submitting to ME then you are ready to consider true submission.
Master Eso presents twelve essays to be read in order, thus, they are submitted in chapter format. Topics are: Article One: Absolute Slavery, Article Two: Our Absolute Lifestyle, Article Three: Defining Absolute and Total Power Exchange, Article Four: Honorifics, Titles and Respect, Article Five: Slavery in Word and Speech, Article Six: Defining Abuse in Absolute and Total Power Exchange, Article Seven: Safewords In Slavery, Article Eight: Consent With Awareness, Article Nine: The Process Of Selection, Article Ten: Knights Vs. Gods, Article Eleven: Slave Petitions, Article Twelve: An Esoteric View: Civility and Incivility In The Scene
Creating tasks for submissives to complete can be overwhelming for a Dominant. Mistress Nev offers her template for tasks.
Service is the most primary, the most basic of terms within the BDSM realm. Service can loosely be defined as an act or work done by one individual to the benefit another, but what does service mean within the BDSM realm? This multi-part document holds the rules and regulations for the BDSM House of Norische.
A Master seeing the final moments of his boy's freedom before the lock is closed.
Movie Review - Snake and Whip (1986) Labels: 1980s, BDSM (male Dom / female sub and female Domme / male sub), bondage (shibari), Dan Oniruku hebi to muchi, enema play, golden showers, Japanese, rough sex, Snake and Whip, suspension
Interviews with the owners of an S&M dungeon and a few of the dominatrixes employed there.
Some women who claim they are not submissive and are dominant exhibit social traits which are closer to being bossy, competitive, aggressive and assertive; yet they still feel a need to be overpowered, controlled and owned. Many other women exhibit a mixture of traits, perhaps being competitive and bossy, but at the same time helpful and fearful of confrontations.
Thoughts on how to keep clubs and play parties safer and accident free. Written with ogre kabneched
Movie Review - The Ages of Lulu (1990) Labels: 1990s, 3way sex, age play, anal sex, BDSM (male Dom / female sub and female Domme / male sub), bi men, bondage, gay men, oral sex, orgy, prostitution, transgendered female, voyeurism