Many slaves love to be chained, even as they go through their days. Here's how I do it.

Some women who claim they are not submissive and are dominant exhibit social traits which are closer to being bossy, competitive, aggressive and assertive; yet they still feel a need to be overpowered, controlled and owned. Many other women exhibit a mixture of traits, perhaps being competitive and bossy, but at the same time helpful and fearful of confrontations.    

If a dom tells you that you should be meeting his needs without his needing to meet yours, you can count on it that he is not a profound dominant at all    

Many profoundly submissive women come to us saying that their master does not control them enough    

A girl who identifies herself as a slave, married to a vanilla man, asked me whether it is still possible for her to find a dominant to control her. This is my reply to her.

Understanding what a profound dominant is is easy. It simply means that someone's control fetish is so extreme as to define their entire personality, making it impossible for them to have any fulfilling intimate relationships other than slavery.    

Submissives sometimes wonder whether a dominant without profound control needs of his own can learn to control them.

Abusers and dominants are so similar on the surface that it's scarily difficult to tell them apart.    

Submissives seeking a master normally head out into the vast dom-wilderness armed with their knowledge of what a master should and shouldn't be like, and perhaps a list of needs or specific traits they are looking for in him and end up heartbroken and alone after a few weeks or months.

A profound submissive has many needs and seeks comfort and domination in specific ways. 

A girl who identifies as a slave looking for a TPE M/s relationship has been chatting with several prospective dominants. She asked me which questions she should be asking them. This is my reply to her.