A submissive girl who wanted a TPE relationship asked me whether it would be okay for her to play casually before she meets her long-term owner. This is my reply.
Review of The Duke of Burgundy. Labels: BDSM, costumes, face sitting, faux 1970s, Female Domme / female sub, role-playing, rope bondage, The Duke of Burgundy
Movie Review - R100 (2013) Labels: bondage, female Dom / male sub, flogging, Japanese, R100, spitting, surreal
Movie Review - The Libertine (1968) Labels: 1960s, BDSM, BDSM Female top/ male sub, pony play, rape, rough sex, slapping, The Libertine, whipping
If a dom tells you that you should be meeting his needs without his needing to meet yours, you can count on it that he is not a profound dominant at all
A profoundly submissive girl looking for APE asked me how she could go about finding an owner. This is my reply.
Review of Graphic Sexual Horror, the story of Insex, the first popular website for BDSM. Labels: BDSM (male Dom / female sub and female Dom / male sub), BDSM scenes, breath play, Graphic Sexual Horror, needle play, real BDSM
Movie Review - Belle De Jour (1967) Labels: BDSM (male Dom / female sub and female Dom / male sub), bdsm belle de jour, bondage, forced sex, hooker sexual fantasies, humiliation, kinky, lingerie, partial nudity, prostitution, role-playing, rough sex
Review - Tokyo Decadence BDSM scenes, Dom/sub, Domme/sub, girl/girl, golden showers, Japanese, prostitution, rope bondage, Shibari, Strap on play, Tokyo Decadence
Many profoundly submissive women come to us saying that their master does not control them enough
Review - Cruising (1980) Labels: Al Pacino, bondage, boy/boy, controversial, Cruising, fisting, gay club, Gay sex, homoerotic, leather scene
Movie Review - Exit to Eden (1994)Labels: BDSM, BDSM fantasy scenes, BDSM Female top/ male sub, Exit to Eden, full frontal nudity, spanking
Movie Review - Daydream (1964) 1960s, biting, blood play, bondage (shibari), Day dream, Dental fetish, electrostim play, exhibitionism, fantasy, forced voyeurism, Hakujitsumu, oral fixation, psychological torture, rape
Sacher-Masoch is best known for the novel, "Venus in Furs."
An exploration of jealousy in submissive women.
Clamps provide a versatile way for the dominant and submissive to further their power exchange, add a new dimension to their erotic encounters, and reach new heights in sexual pleasure.
"Imperious, choleric, irascible, extreme in everything, with a dissolute imagination the like of which has never been seen, atheistic to the point of fanaticism, there you have me in a nutshell...." The Marquis de Sade
A girl who identifies herself as a slave, married to a vanilla man, asked me whether it is still possible for her to find a dominant to control her. This is my reply to her.
Very frequently profound submissives, and especially unowned girls, wind up feeling like they are not unique as slaves, that they are so ordinary that no dom will have any reason to choose them over any other slave.
In the scene, trying to come to an agreement about the "Old Guard" is a lot like comparing the merits of various religions.
Understanding what a profound dominant is is easy. It simply means that someone's control fetish is so extreme as to define their entire personality, making it impossible for them to have any fulfilling intimate relationships other than slavery.
Controlling my own orgasmic response in order to increase my own and my slaves' sexual pleasure
Review of After Fall Winter - BDSM, BDSM Female top/ male sub, breath play, choking, face slapping, rape play, rough sex
Submissives sometimes wonder whether a dominant without profound control needs of his own can learn to control them.
Some starting pointers and a couple references on training.