Tips on having a safe, hot, sexy fun time with Christmas light bondage.
Ten things to keep in mind before you begin with a submissive or slave.
Recently I had an interesting experience with a wannabees slave. I write all of this for you all to realize what hazards there are out there when you are looking for an in-home slave/sub.
Contrary to popular belief, a Daddy/Mommy is like any other Dom/Domme. While their roles might be slightly different from Masters/Mistresses, their goals for the submissive are very similar in terms of growth and guidance.
When you consider a Master/Mistress and slave relationship you must consider what exactly a slave is. What rights is a slave allowed? What behaviors are acceptable? What consequences are permitted?
Doesn't S/M mean one person who enjoys deliberately inflicting pain on another person who, for some reason, likes receiving that pain?
Blessed be and bend over.
Tips for Dominants for handling the many types of fear a submissive has. There is fear of physical pain, fear of the unknown, which can be pushing certain limits, and there are emotional fears.
Guidelines for establishing household protocols and examples.
A personal experience with harassment and tools to assist others overcome harassment n a D/s relationship.
Ayup.
Finding the right submissive or slave involves figuring out what you need, first, then going where they graze in herds.
I get a lot of questions asking about what separates a middle from a little. Unfortunately there's not too much information or resources for littles who identify more as a middle, so I'm going to try and help with that.
Introductions and Pre-Meeting Behaviors
Many slaves love to be chained, even as they go through their days. Here's how I do it.
In the past I have read countless articles, books and opinions on the difference between a slave and a submissive, everyone seems to have a point of view or a "standard" for a slave. Yet with so many different ideas and perspectives, what really is a slave, or better yet who?
Are D-types control freaks? Is it a power trip? Is being a control freak a lack of trust issue or something else? Can S-types be control freak? How does being in control and being a control freak differ? Can you be a dominant personality and not want to have control?
Questions for a submissive/bottom before a scene.
When you wish a specific behavior to occur you must use specific words. Don't vs. Stop, Nude vs. Naked, Humiliation VS Degradation, Dehumanization VS Depersonalization, Want VS Need
To me an internet relationship is more of a role playing game, one where there is no risk, no possibility of failure.
As you can see there are a lot of hidden meanings in different phrases and statements that individuals use and they may or may not realize the full weight of what they are stating.
What is a Dominant's moral obligation to his or her slave?
Some negotiation questions I use as a top to better learn about my bottoms, their character, and their interest in play.
Many individuals prefer multiple slaves/subs within the BDSM lifestyle; how to best control and govern the slaves within one's household.
Face slapping is an art. How-to tips.
