Breaking up is hard to do, BDSM breakups and rebounds are really, really hard to do. To sum it up in one phrase, I’d have to say “DAMN THAT HURTS”.
One man's version of how it's done.
How do you become a slave? Is it natural, like a slave at heart? Do you end up growing into it, get so used to one another that you just fall into the position of a slave? Or do you go to slaves ‘r us and get a certificate?
One would think that defining submission would be easy, but it's not just defined by service, sex, duties, obedience, etc. There's more to it.
Bruise care
Why practice bondage? Why would someone enjoy getting tied up?
G- spot aware men benefit from the excitement of truly giving emotional as well as maximum physical intimate pleasure to a women
Or How do I Get a Mistress to Accept my Petition?
Or, How Do I Get A Dom, Anyway?
All about clothespins.
Getting people thinking about the ethics of playing with new/young submissives, but not as a definitive guide to how it should be done, placing a lot of emphasis on the Dominant mindset.
Corsetry's Place in the B&D Scene
Produced by the Society for Human Sexuality at the University of Washington. Very comprehensive and informative.
Your wife/girlfriend just dropped the bomb that she wants to be dominated. The very first thing to do is to Read This.
A communication style/tool for submissives to share anger while still remaining in subissive state.
You can't read a Dominant's mind. Here are a few tips that he'd like you to know.
Negotiating the scene.
Rules for a little game
An explanation of the Chinese yin-yang symbol and how it describes our D/s relationship
A very insightful look at how we create online partners in our own image--and end up disappointed when they don't quite end up being what we thought they were.
How can you tell if s/he is right for you?
The beginning lessons in domination.
At last, an owner's manual for submissives. Some insight for your Dominant on what makes you tick.
If being submissive ever made you feel like you were from another planet and no one understands what you're all about, come and explore this wonderful new world known as "subSpace." You'll find links to articles concerning submission found on our site and links to some great places on the Internet that have things of value for you. You just might find out you're not alone in the universe.
by Jade. The need for the "dark side" of D/s--Coming to terms with the beast that lurks within.
