Chosing a name in the scene
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1360 Read Count: 3314
Chosing a name in the scene
Beginners are told a lot of lies. Here's a short, non-complete list.
Caps and slashes - why
Hurting people for fun, physically and mentally
What happens at a play party - questions answered.
Thoughts on the difference between appearing to be in control, and actually being in control.
When Domimant behavior that is not only boorish, but downright inappropriate
Setting the scene for your scene.

The benefits of BDSM relationships
The is and outs of being a lifestyle and scene switch.
Is he a Dom? What are the signs?
The validity of mourning lost relationship, even when your friends say to get over it.
There are two different kinds of control, control over the bottom line (the ultimate), and control over a particular sphere of influence. Being ultimately in control means that the Submissive can always use his safeword and stop the action; they have veto power.
Going slow in the lifesyle when every emotion tells us to rush headfirst into bliss
Saving money on fashion, toys, dating and events
Submission in styles in different mindsets and places
A single act sent Sadie into subspace and a host of submisive reactions.
Finding the Dom(me) of your dreams a how-to.
Is Your Friend Ready to Hear About Your Kinky Lifestyle? How to Share Your Kinky Side with Friends and Family without Freaking Anyone Out
Owning the insult, "bedroom submissive".
Two parts on rumor and dealing with poor behavior online
Things to Do to Signify that you're a Submissive
Expressing the submissiveness within, even when you're pretty tough. By Sensuous Sadie with liberal assistance from Stacey.
The strength to serve
What is Topping from the Bottom, is it ever a good thing and can it be stopped?