A Dynamic of BDSM is the assigned role O/one takes on within the bond
Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Protocol
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 154 Read Count: 3417
Titles
Stories
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Protocol
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 154 Read Count: 3417
Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Protocol
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 154 Read Count: 3417
[Report This] Published: 02/04/2015 Updated: 02/07/2015
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Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info, Non-Consent
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 98 Read Count: 2797
The difference between CNC and Gor
Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info, Non-Consent
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 98 Read Count: 2797
[Report This] Published: 02/04/2015 Updated: 02/07/2015
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Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 363 Read Count: 2891
Power Exchange and Total Power Exchange are...the base, the root, the very cause behind BDSM. The fundamentals that all of the dynamics and protocols that each and every bond are built upon.
Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 363 Read Count: 2891
[Report This] Published: 02/04/2015 Updated: 02/07/2015
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Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: No Word count: 452 Read Count: 3064
The difference between power and control in a Total Power Exchange or Consensual NonConsent relationship.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: No Word count: 452 Read Count: 3064
[Report This] Published: 02/04/2015 Updated: 02/06/2015
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Categories: On and Off Gor > Kajirae
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 387 Read Count: 2672
This one's been asked a lot about how i can claim to be a kajira but not claim to be a Gorean.
Categories: On and Off Gor > Kajirae
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 387 Read Count: 2672
[Report This] Published: 02/04/2015 Updated: 02/05/2015
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Categories: How-To > Non-Kinky Things
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1241 Read Count: 2104
A few tips and tools to help those with disabilities have fulfilling scenes.
Categories: How-To > Non-Kinky Things
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1241 Read Count: 2104
[Report This] Published: 02/04/2015 Updated: 02/05/2015
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Categories: Submission > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 233 Read Count: 2109
DaFuq do some P/people think subs and slaves are all weak-ass pushovers and meek little doormats?
Categories: Submission > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 233 Read Count: 2109
[Report This] Published: 02/04/2015 Updated: 02/04/2015
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Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 396 Read Count: 3260
Definitions of the anagram BDSM.
Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 396 Read Count: 3260
[Report This] Published: 02/04/2015 Updated: 02/04/2015
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Categories: The Lifestyle > Pets and Animals
Characters: None
Content Notes: Primal/Pet
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 306 Read Count: 2914
Exploring the differences between fursuit furries, animal personalities, and pet play.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Pets and Animals
Characters: None
Content Notes: Primal/Pet
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 306 Read Count: 2914
[Report This] Published: 02/03/2015 Updated: 02/04/2015
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely, The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management, Online D/s > Moving Offline, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Blood Play, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Electro Play, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Fire, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Wax
Characters: None
Content Notes: Blood, Bondage, Edge, Electro, For Beginners, How-To, Humiliation, Impact, Online, Safety, Sensation, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 16 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4670 Read Count: 94084
Life is not without risk, and our lifestyle even more so. Everyday we risk exposure, injury, emotional damage, but we accept those risks. Learning how to be safer and deal with possible problems is a major undertaking not to be ignored. A wide ranging introduction to safety practices in several different BDSM activies and venues.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely, The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management, Online D/s > Moving Offline, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Blood Play, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Electro Play, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Fire, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Wax
Characters: None
Content Notes: Blood, Bondage, Edge, Electro, For Beginners, How-To, Humiliation, Impact, Online, Safety, Sensation, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 16 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4670 Read Count: 94084
[Report This] Published: 01/26/2015 Updated: 02/02/2015
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Categories: On and Off Gor > Gorean Life
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2140 Read Count: 3721
Look beyond the notecard. Do your research. Read the primary sources.
Categories: On and Off Gor > Gorean Life
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2140 Read Count: 3721
[Report This] Published: 01/26/2015 Updated: 01/26/2015
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Categories: On and Off Gor > Kajirae
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1337 Read Count: 3690
A slave girl's duties are exquisite beauty and absolute obedience. She is to serve, please and be pleasing to all Free Persons. What does it really mean? Are there exceptions?
Categories: On and Off Gor > Kajirae
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1337 Read Count: 3690
[Report This] Published: 01/26/2015 Updated: 01/26/2015
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Categories: On and Off Gor > Gorean Life
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1479 Read Count: 4364
Gor was a harsh world, one in which the laws made life a very black and white existence. You either are...or you are not. And every action followed with it a consequence, whether positive or negative. This essay is going to examine the topic of actions and consequences within Gor.
Categories: On and Off Gor > Gorean Life
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1479 Read Count: 4364
[Report This] Published: 01/26/2015 Updated: 01/26/2015
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Cupping
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 496 Read Count: 35
A new take on fire cupping.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Cupping
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 496 Read Count: 35
[Report This] Published: 01/25/2015 Updated: 01/25/2015
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Mind Fucks
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 180 Read Count: 53
What is a Mindfuck?
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Mind Fucks
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 180 Read Count: 53
[Report This] Published: 01/22/2015 Updated: 01/25/2015
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Categories: How-To > Checklists & Negotiation
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1092 Read Count: 4284
The first terms of my scene negotiations. This is what I can offer, and what I need you to give me. If these preliminary terms cannot be met, then we have nothing further to talk about.
Categories: How-To > Checklists & Negotiation
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1092 Read Count: 4284
[Report This] Published: 01/22/2015 Updated: 01/23/2015
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Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 762 Read Count: 3862
One couple's opinon on the difference between discipline versus punishment.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 762 Read Count: 3862
[Report This] Published: 01/22/2015 Updated: 01/23/2015
Countdown of Top 10 Things No One Will Tell You Before Your First Trip To a Dungeon by Shelby Cross Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: How-To > A Trip to the Dungeon
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1120 Read Count: 3984
I wish someone had told me this stuff before my first trip to a dungeon. But no, I had to learn the hard way! Now maybe some of you don't.
Categories: How-To > A Trip to the Dungeon
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1120 Read Count: 3984
[Report This] Published: 01/22/2015 Updated: 01/23/2015
Newbies: Avoid "Community Frenzy" Protect Yourselves by Shelby Cross Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1468 Read Count: 3746
Wanting to belong to the BDSM community often makes newbies forget about protecting themselves, first.
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1468 Read Count: 3746
[Report This] Published: 01/22/2015 Updated: 01/23/2015
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Categories: Submission, The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, How-To, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1212 Read Count: 3567
How do I tell the difference between someone who really wants to help me, and someone who is a predator, an exploiter, someone who just wants to take advantage of me?"
Categories: Submission, The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, How-To, Lifestyle Info, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1212 Read Count: 3567
[Report This] Published: 01/22/2015 Updated: 01/22/2015
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Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info, Philosophy, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 386 Read Count: 4853
Knowing the difference between the real deal and a poseur so you can keep safe.
Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General, Lifestyle Info, Philosophy, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 386 Read Count: 4853
[Report This] Published: 01/21/2015 Updated: 01/21/2015
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Categories: On and Off Gor > What is Gor
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1824 Read Count: 4339
An introduction to Gor and online forums where Goreans meet and share ideas.
Categories: On and Off Gor > What is Gor
Characters: None
Content Notes: Gor
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1824 Read Count: 4339
[Report This] Published: 01/21/2015 Updated: 01/21/2015
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Categories: How-To > A Trip to the Dungeon
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3624 Read Count: 2576
(Version 1.4, written 8/14/03) What to expect at a munch, and some dos and do nots to get around with other lifestylers.
Categories: How-To > A Trip to the Dungeon
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3624 Read Count: 2576
[Report This] Published: 12/22/2014 Updated: 12/22/2014
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Categories: How-To > Equipment > All About Rope
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1697 Read Count: 4087
A few notes about rope for beginners
Categories: How-To > Equipment > All About Rope
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1697 Read Count: 4087
[Report This] Published: 08/10/2014 Updated: 08/10/2014
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Categories: Online D/s > Moving Offline, The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, Online
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4127 Read Count: 117
Learn to recognize the snerts, horny net geeks, control freak, and outright predators online and when you move offline.
Categories: Online D/s > Moving Offline, The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, Online
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 4127 Read Count: 117
[Report This] Published: 08/01/2014 Updated: 08/01/2014