Several questions answered, from the basic to the esoteric.
Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2759 Read Count: 2937
Several questions answered, from the basic to the esoteric.
The Dominants role in reestablishing a D/s reationship when it has drifted out of D/s.
An alternative to "SSC", "Risk-Aware, Consensual Kink"
The Dominant's role in working through the limitiations of the self and a submissive.
Several sample contracts and a word on negotiation
The use of "slut" by Goreans and the duties of a kajira in embracing the word.
The role, position, and mindset of the switch in BDSM
Understanding the difference between abusive relationships and S/M
Emphasising the important and practice of cleanliness and sanitation in play.
Blackrose author Chris discusses the importance of scene aftercare.
So how do you start the process of becoming better known and more trusted in the BDSM scene?
Doing dangerous things safely. Have a clue and have a care in how to solve invitable safety issues.
Practical guidelines and advice on AIDS prevention within SM play, from The AIDS Committee of Toronto Safer SM Education Project
How to go about finding the perfect partner for you
One of the more famous resources on flogging.
Meeting someone in RL, either someone you had met on line or in RL, is inherently dangerous. There are some steps you can take to protect yourself.
Breath Control Play is DANGEROUS. Read this.
The proper way to apply hadcuffs, by National Institute of Justice and various handcuff manuals, ed, by c.
Mistress Marla and her ana
drawing: blaze{B} greets Master
drawing: Lynnette)j)) and jill{L)}

drawing: Benevolent Goddess Punishes mitzi
drawing: Venus Bound
"How do I find a Dom/ Dominant/ Dominatrix/ domme/ Goddess/ Mistress/ dominant_Lady/ dominate_woman?"
Techniques used in evaluating risk and risk management