Teaching with no ego.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
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Teaching with no ego.
A Chronicle of the Hook Pull performed by Fakir Musafar and Cleo Duboise at Black Rose 2002
Communication techniques for use during play
A short chapter from my never published, book length treatise on impact play.
There are indeed people out there who I would consider Masters of their trade within BDSM circles. These folks have spent a great deal of time and effort into learning their craft and it shows.
One of my contributions to Black Rose was the development of the Dungeon Monitoring Training Program, in 1998. I was the maintainer of the DM Guide until Kernmantle stepped down as Chief DM, in the mid 2000s. The attached handbook was my last revision which addressed new issues like the relationship between safety and dungeon design as well as my attempt to classify different kinds of play by safety risk factors. I wrote it so that it did NOT include, as earlier versions did, a defacto, built in set of house rules. It was my hope that this would make it easier to adapt to a wide range of play environments, be they home dungeon parties, fetish clubs, or thousand person play events with differing sets of needs.
A single tail(ed whip) is any tapered, braided whip.
This is an article I wrote in 1997 addressing what I felt to be inadequacies in SM's most famous rubric.
How many times have you come across someone (it doesn't matter Dom/mme, sub, Master, slave, switch, Top, bottom) that either claims to be or is seeking someone that is "no limits"?
A very affordable home made toy for Kink on a budget.
First aid kit contents and basic first aid tips.
Grappling Basics for Kinksters! (How to control/dominate/submit your opponent in the most enjoyable way possible)
When you first get into the scene you tend to meet a ton of new people. So how do you check up on your new found friend(s)?
A poem I wrote while inspired by Bob Flannigan's "Why?"
This is the outline I developed for the first ever Black Rose ever talk on tickling. I think it was 1997....
Th House rules and ideals for House Solitude.
Charter, rule, contract, and training documents for the House of Cadifor.
Accidents happen. This is one of them.
The relationship between a Gorean Master and his slave.
Often Dominants need a helping hand, a bit of encouragement, and a nudge in the right direction, from the significant others we call subs.
Alternative Punishments That Work
If the sub likes everything you dish out, and sees it as a game, but hates to be ignored... guess what...? Ignoring isn't abandoning - look at the differences.
What not to do for new Doms and how community leaders can handle the arrogant, clueless, and downright dangerous.
Exploring The Dunning-Kruger effect in BDSM.
When it comes to pouting there are basically two different point of views, either you love it or you hate it.