First aid kit contents and basic first aid tips.
Grappling Basics for Kinksters! (How to control/dominate/submit your opponent in the most enjoyable way possible)
Regardless of what subject you're referring to or activity you're practicing, there are a number of very broad general principles that apply when it comes to safety. The most important features are knowledge & understanding, vigilance (or awareness), honesty, communication, critical thinking, and intention.
When you first get into the scene you tend to meet a ton of new people. So how do you check up on your new found friend(s)?
Ties and applied techniques for cock and ball bondage with Tony Buff and Derek da Silva. Illustrated.
A poem I wrote while inspired by Bob Flannigan's "Why?"
This is the outline I developed for the first ever Black Rose ever talk on tickling. I think it was 1997....
Th House rules and ideals for House Solitude.
Charter, rule, contract, and training documents for the House of Cadifor.
Accidents happen. This is one of them.
The relationship between a Gorean Master and his slave.
A dance of offering.
Often Dominants need a helping hand, a bit of encouragement, and a nudge in the right direction, from the significant others we call subs.
Alternative Punishments That Work
If the sub likes everything you dish out, and sees it as a game, but hates to be ignored... guess what...? Ignoring isn't abandoning - look at the differences.
What not to do for new Doms and how community leaders can handle the arrogant, clueless, and downright dangerous.
Exploring The Dunning-Kruger effect in BDSM.
When it comes to pouting there are basically two different point of views, either you love it or you hate it.
When one makes the discussion to take a slave there are many pieces of information that every Master/Mistress/Dom/Domme should ask for
Perception isn't everything, but it's something.
Rules I learned by observing people I respect as photographers, riggers, and tops.
How one Dominant does it.
There is more than just power that is exchanged in what it is that we do.
Tips on Safe Words, Limits, and Scene Protocol
How I approach the internal workings of a D/S relationship and the training of a Submissive.