For many wax play is one of the first experiences within the BDSM real, this is also the reason that so many people end up getting accidentally hurt.
Somethings need to be written on the blackboard. A lot.
Why I adopt such an aggressive defensive posture to attacks upon me and mine.
If you want a full-time sub, then start by being a full-time Dom.
These words are technically misnomers, which is to say that they are the best words to describe what you're doing, but that doesn't make them actually altogether accurate descriptions
If someone isn't directly giving me consent, then there is no consent in my opinion.
Being safe is important. Having a safe call is meant to lessen dangerous situations.
Mummification is one of the most extreme forms of bondage, this intricate form of artwork allows for the slave/sub to become entirely helpless, confined, constricted and immobilized.
Sometimes people wonder why.
Being a Service Top/Dom without seeming like a Service Top/Dom
In The Netherlands it's often said that if you want to start with bondage, you first need to get some "real bondage rope".
Not a handbook, but bits of advice from a Dom.
Movie Review - Pleasure or Pain (2013)
A response to someone who was looking to figure out who they are as a pet. However some of the information here can also be used as resources for owners to find their perfect human pets.
There is cognitive challenge in reconciling roles with perceived power (dominants) and roles with perceived powerlessness (submission, bottoming).
Basics of Gags and Gagging
Coming out as kinky.
Using quills in play.
Bondage safety hints, tips, tricks, and musts.
Educating oneself about how others live, and the reasons why, will create a bond of common understanding and possibly fluidity where appropriate etiquette is applied.
When performing whether it be spinning poi or staff, dancing with palm torches or fans, dazzling the onlookers with a fire dart, or making some melt with the crack of the fire whip or striking them with fire floggers...or proving that you are just plain insane by doing the most dangerous form of fire, fire breathing, YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN SAFETY!!
Sharing advice with the 'Newbs' that I wish I'd been given when first getting involved in this 'Lifestyle'.
How to be a Dom. It isn't all blowjobs, orders, and spankings.
Whether or not a submissive could have two Doms
Within the BDSM realm there is a very important ingredient, namely masochism.