This is the Play Table that I compiled and use in my House.
Learning to Trust You Instincts - Part One: Dominants
There are two viewpoints on personal safty in the lifestyle, but they aren't mutualy exclusive, no matter what some claim.
I believe in the combination of both S.S.C. (Safe, Sane, Consensual) and R.A.C.K. (Risk, Aware/Assessed, Consensual, Kink).
The bond between a Dominant type, and a submissive type happens over time, and very slowly in most cases.
To execute a good mind fuck, one needs to have an understanding of how one's imagination plays into their perceptions of what is real.
"Hey I'm a Dominant, you're a submissive. If you consensually hand power over to me, we can both play our respective roles productively."
We as a rope community keep educating both rope tops and bottoms.
Each pet defines themselves. For fun I wrote up my idea of what definitions for human pets might look like.
Concerning the the self appointed title of submissive.
You do not need to have a Mentor or Protector. You really don't, if you want one though, you need to have some basic understanding of a few things.
It's not all beer and skittles being a Dom.
What a submissive should expect.
The importance of collars to pets.
What a pet owner should be doing.
Protocol for initiation contact online.
Basics of Knife Play and Cutting
An Extremely Thorough Play Checklist
A few simple rules.
Since the BDSM community is so diverse a subculture, are there people part of the BDSM culture that you(others) see as deviant?
I believe positive and responsible consent education is a constructive and effective tool to combat the sheer volume of occurrences of rape.
Dealing with Fears and Phobias
Pervertables: Any object that was previously designed for a specific purpose, which may be perverted and used for more creative and interesting uses.
Many discuss the aftercare of a bottom; but fail to mention that the top half of the slash requires it as well.
Defining the protocol of the end M/s relationship through either death or uncollaring.