Building Trust Within a BDSM Relationship

This is a questionnaire that is specifically designed to assist in learning the bottom/submissive/slave when it concerns scening and play. This is by no means a complete list of questions but it will guide both parties as to what should indeed be discussed prior to play.     

Incorporating the hair in your bondage is appealing to many and for many different reasons. It dramatically increases the feeling of being restrained, it's incredibly intimate and personal, it can be painful, humiliating and it often is a very effective way to keep the head still and in position.

Some think that a slave has no needs; that once a slave becomes owned he or she has all he or she will ever need. There are many things that a slave needs.

Or How to Flog Someone So They'll Come Back for More

Ten things to keep in mind before you begin with a submissive or slave. 

Contrary to popular belief, a Daddy/Mommy is like any other Dom/Domme. While their roles might be slightly different from Masters/Mistresses,  their goals for the submissive are very similar in terms of growth and guidance.    

Doesn't S/M mean one person who enjoys deliberately inflicting pain on another person who, for some reason, likes receiving that pain?    

Tips for Dominants for handling the many types of fear a submissive has. There is fear of physical pain, fear of the unknown, which can be pushing certain limits, and there are emotional fears.

A personal experience with harassment and tools to assist others overcome harassment n a D/s relationship. 

Finding the right submissive or slave involves figuring out what you need, first, then going where they graze in herds.

Introductions and Pre-Meeting Behaviors