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Summary: For those who are interested in service submission, it can be very difficult to find any sort of learning or teachings on service.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 928 Read Count: 285
[Report This] Published: 06/04/2017 Updated: 06/13/2017
Manners and Etiquette by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A fast guide to the rules and protocols you might encounter in a leather/BDSM/fet gathering with some do's and don'ts.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1788 Read Count: 766
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Why Serve? by UnrulyNerdGirl Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

What Are the Characteristics of a Service Submissive and Why?    


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Service Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1416 Read Count: 222
[Report This] Published: 05/28/2017 Updated: 05/28/2017
Some Thoughts on Consent... by Esox Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Within the BDSM Scene there is a lot of conversation about consent. And there should be.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 992 Read Count: 681
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
Scene Etiquette by Esox Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

General Kink Etiquette- These are some basic guidelines to follow.    


Categories: How-To > A Trip to the Dungeon
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 3108 Read Count: 679
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
Summary:

Please give this post some thought. Get to know your potential bottoms well enough to engage in these type conversations. Whatever you do, have some "Plan B" that will allow a rope bottom to get loose in the event of an emergency.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 770 Read Count: 301
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
Summary:

Communication techniques for use during play    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin, The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2230 Read Count: 361
[Report This] Published: 05/26/2016 Updated: 06/04/2016
First Aid Kit Info by camilletoh Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

First aid kit contents and basic first aid tips.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, How-To, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1127 Read Count: 307
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Summary:

When you first get into the scene you tend to meet a ton of new people. So how do you check up on your new found friend(s)?


Categories: How-To > A Trip to the Dungeon
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 761 Read Count: 272
[Report This] Published: 05/18/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Being Leather by Chris M Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A poem I wrote while inspired by Bob Flannigan's "Why?"    


Categories: The Lifestyle > Philosophy
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 895 Read Count: 308
[Report This] Published: 05/25/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
Summary:

This is the outline I developed for the first ever Black Rose ever talk on tickling. I think it was 1997....    


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1789 Read Count: 630
[Report This] Published: 05/26/2016 Updated: 05/26/2016
House Solitude Tenets by Cade Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Th House rules and ideals for House Solitude.


Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7 Relationships
Characters: None
Content Notes: Ceremony, D/s-M/s, General, Lifestyle Info, Protocol
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1864 Read Count: 444
[Report This] Published: 05/03/2016 Updated: 05/03/2016
Summary:

Rules I learned by observing people I respect as photographers, riggers, and tops.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 877 Read Count: 274
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
On Energy Play by Call Me Sid Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 1]
Summary:

There is more than just power that is exchanged in what it is that we do.


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 926 Read Count: 346
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Play Table by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 1]
Summary:

This is the Play Table that I compiled and use in my House.    


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To, Safety, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 708 Read Count: 356
[Report This] Published: 10/24/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:

The importance of collars to pets.


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, General, Primal/Pet
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 542 Read Count: 493
[Report This] Published: 10/05/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Deviants in BDSM by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Since the BDSM community is so diverse a subculture, are there people part of the BDSM culture that you(others) see as deviant? 


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 608 Read Count: 381
[Report This] Published: 10/23/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:

Pervertables: Any object that was previously designed for a specific purpose, which may be perverted and used for more creative and interesting uses. 


Categories: How-To > Equipment
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 356 Read Count: 311
[Report This] Published: 10/19/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Getting Freaky With It by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Definitions of Fetishes, Paraphilias, and Just Plain Freaky


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2181 Read Count: 760
[Report This] Published: 10/19/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:

If someone isn't directly giving me consent, then there is no consent in my opinion.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1195 Read Count: 228
[Report This] Published: 10/06/2015 Updated: 10/25/2015
Summary:

A response to someone who was looking to figure out who they are as a pet. However some of the information here can also be used as resources for owners to find their perfect human pets.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1162 Read Count: 467
[Report This] Published: 10/05/2015 Updated: 10/25/2015
Summary:

There is cognitive challenge in reconciling roles with perceived power (dominants) and roles with perceived powerlessness (submission, bottoming).    


Categories: The Lifestyle > You in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 962 Read Count: 606
[Report This] Published: 10/25/2015 Updated: 10/25/2015
Standing on My Own Two Feet by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Basics of Foot Torture


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Hitting Other People
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To, Impact
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1929 Read Count: 467
[Report This] Published: 10/18/2015 Updated: 10/18/2015
What’s In It For Me? by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Two types of Dom Space


Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1320 Read Count: 312
[Report This] Published: 09/09/2015 Updated: 10/04/2015
Whip Me, Beat Me, Take Me Home by Norische Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

A guideline for first time meetings.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 400 Read Count: 360
[Report This] Published: 09/10/2015 Updated: 10/04/2015
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