Penname: TheKinkShrink Real name:
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Stories by TheKinkShrink
Summary:

Every adult has gone through some form of trauma and has had varying success with healing that trauma. On 10/15/22 The Kink Shrink talks about healing and managing trauma.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 11359 Read Count: 246
[Report This] Published: 10/21/2022 Updated: 10/21/2022
Summary:

To grieve is normal and natural, and as such should not be seen as an issue or a condition to be cured, no set timings, your discomfort watching someone's process is a YOU problem, not a them problem.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 5279 Read Count: 245
[Report This] Published: 10/16/2022 Updated: 10/16/2022
Summary:

Look, relationships don't always work out, and that is shit.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Finding a Partner
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1977 Read Count: 221
[Report This] Published: 10/16/2022 Updated: 10/16/2022
Summary:

This is from a workshop I run on humiliation. Humiliation IS edge play.


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Humiliation
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2767 Read Count: 269
[Report This] Published: 09/20/2020 Updated: 06/26/2021
Summary:

The Kink Shrink visits to talk all about degradation and how it differs from humiliation. This is edge play. 9/20/20


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Humiliation, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: Edge
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2788 Read Count: 464
[Report This] Published: 09/20/2020 Updated: 09/20/2020
Summary:

What is cuckqueaning?


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1449 Read Count: 651
[Report This] Published: 06/04/2020 Updated: 08/14/2020
Summary:

1/12/20 Garden Topic Chat with The Kink Shrink on Humiliation Play


Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Humiliation, The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics
Characters: None
Content Notes: Humiliation
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 5693 Read Count: 402
[Report This] Published: 02/17/2020 Updated: 03/08/2020
Summary: Past Featured Story

Eleanor Roosevelt said, "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Discussion is with TheKinkShrink on Erotic Humiliation.


Categories: The Lifestyle > Garden Chat Topics, How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Humiliation
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 7488 Read Count: 73
[Report This] Published: 01/12/2020 Updated: 01/12/2020
Obedience by TheKinkShrink Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

What is obedience? And more specifically, what is obedience to me?    


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 660 Read Count: 442
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 09/24/2019
Summary:

This is supposed to be fun and feel good. Remember?


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 618 Read Count: 313
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 08/11/2019
Summary:

What is your partner's love language?


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 963 Read Count: 352
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 07/07/2019
Summary:

Many things need to be taken in to consideration about marking.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 775 Read Count: 489
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 06/30/2019
Pain and bdsm by TheKinkShrink Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

What is pain?


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2247 Read Count: 399
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 06/01/2019
Summary:

Addressing the fear of saying, "No."


Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 473 Read Count: 548
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 04/17/2019
Summary:

If your partner has a panic attack...


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1617 Read Count: 467
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 04/17/2019
Summary:

It isn't always what it appears on here or in books.    


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 256 Read Count: 504
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 04/17/2019
It's in a kiss... by TheKinkShrink Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Kissing and bdsm? Do you, don't you, should you? Even having sex, same question. What's in a kiss anyway?    


Categories: How-To > Non-Kinky Things
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 941 Read Count: 578
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/24/2019
Summary:

Stop with entitlement and move to responsibility.    


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1206 Read Count: 708
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/24/2019
Summary:

It is such a complex biochemical process that it would be good for us to understand.    


Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1878 Read Count: 445
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
BDSM Myth buster 101 by TheKinkShrink Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:

Busting some common BDSM myths.


Categories: The Lifestyle > BDSM vs. ______
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 572 Read Count: 673
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:

What is trust anyway why do we need it in BDSM.


Categories: The Lifestyle > The Basics
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1137 Read Count: 451
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:

I also said when not if, could it be an if at all?


Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1018 Read Count: 470
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:

As part of your negotiation, ask this question.


Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 251 Read Count: 564
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:

To fully consent, one must understand and anticipate all of the potential consequences. 


Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 325 Read Count: 613
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
Summary:

Just because you don't always submit, does not mean you are not A submissive    


Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 319 Read Count: 732
[Report This] Published: 02/05/2019 Updated: 02/10/2019
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