Have you told the people that you love that you're kinky? Why or why not? What are the pros and cons, how would you do it?
01/02/2022 kissa leads a discussion on Drop on another server.
11/16/22 Sero leads a discussion on how we can maintain a long distance relationship in BDSM.
The Toy Box is an individual's assemblage of toys.
11/9 we'll have a chit-chat about Aftercare and Drop. Because these two things are so often talked about in relation to "sweet, delicate, helpless" submissives, we're going to make sure that we also talk about, as @Sid calls them, "Those Who have no Souls", Dominants.
10/29/22 We discuss using Botanicals in BDSM, including botanicals used for health reasons, safety precautions in BDSM, and the use of many plants, vegetables, herbs, weeds, and spices in giving pain.
"I am looking for a NEW SUBMISSIVE to collar as my slave." Why? This comment is perhaps one of the more common statements made by Male Dominant names in Internet chat rooms.
Subspace - This term generally is used to describe a moderate to deep trancelike condition experienced by persons in the submissive position in a D/s relationship during interaction with the person in the Dominant position in the relationship.
Achievement of a state of sterility for objects used or reused in BDSM scening is often a poorly understood issue for newcomers into the D/s or BDSM communities.
10/5/22 Discussion about Vetting New Partners
It is curious to explore one of the mysteries of queening and to see within its example so many intriguing concepts and ideas
Public Play or scening is a fairly popular past-time for members of the D/s or BDSM community. It is for many an opportunity to socialize with other members of the local community
For 'sex' or 'scening' to be a meaningful experience there must be an investment or belief in its intrinsic value.
For the purposes of this article I will assume that you have successfully entered Sub-Space with your submissive and are now at the point where you would like to deepen that space or move your submissive 'within' Space.
I will give a very brief and in my opinion 'pitiful' definition /description of the origins of Tantra here and hope that those interested or intrigued will actively pursue further knowledge.
This eruption of self-realization, spontaneous experience of awakening or 'space' occurs to both Dominant and submissive equally.
A dicussion of Hepatitis in golden and brown showers.
Kegels are exercises which involve the pelvic 'floor'. These muscles support the urethra, bladder, uterus and rectum.
The reality and effects of space for Doms and subs.
Using safewords and gestures
After observing and responding to several "How do I fist" posts I am writing an article on it so that everyone can share in this most wonderful and loving act.
As an erotic, sensual practice -- hair and scalp tugging are quite popular. For some people there is a desire for a leisurely massage, for others the hunger for a sharp, eye watering tug.
Space . . . the beckoning edge of the mind. It defies ready description, challenges us with its illusive presence yet exists in the same undefinable way that all intangible things exist.
The detaching of a Dominant due to excess energy release!
Sometimes a Dominant will become involved with a submissive unlike any submissive they have met before. In this case I am referring to a High-End Submissive. (please see article titled High-End Submissive)