10/29/22 We discuss using Botanicals in BDSM, including botanicals used for health reasons, safety precautions in BDSM, and the use of many plants, vegetables, herbs, weeds, and spices in giving pain.
As an erotic, sensual practice -- hair and scalp tugging are quite popular. For some people there is a desire for a leisurely massage, for others the hunger for a sharp, eye watering tug.
Often in this community, you'll hear bandied about such terms as "sensory deprivation" and "sensation play". But what are they? Are they different, and if so, how? I'm going to attempt to unpack these two terms a little, and elaborate in detail, where in the past, I've mostly only heard vague references.
Wax play hints
How to use using capsaicin cream during play to make it hurt.
Temperature and Cleanup of Wax
Information on topical and internal irritants for sensation play.
Proper electric current causes both the stimulation of nerve endings and involuntary muscle stimulation.
There are definitely some recommended do's and don'ts as far as tickling torture goes.
A good way to do a self tie, and self tickle and make it a bit uncomfortable and hard to get out of.
Two scene ideas using tickling and mind fucks.
The chain trick or chaining is the insertion of metal or plastic chain into an orifice and its subsequent removal for sexual stimulation.
History and basics of "figging": the use of ginger in play.
Some Enlightenment About Darkness And Loss of Good Sense
Life is not without risk, and our lifestyle even more so. Everyday we risk exposure, injury, emotional damage, but we accept those risks. Learning how to be safer and deal with possible problems is a major undertaking not to be ignored. A wide ranging introduction to safety practices in several different BDSM activies and venues.
Using wax safely