10/8/22 discussion of Trust in BDSM
An interview with Callie Lake, author of "The Beginning". Sept 29, 2019 with reflectedtruths and Song Yung
A clear definition of protocol within the BDSM community - "a set of governing rules that dictate the body, behavior and attitudes through an enforced code of behavior and/or rituals whether it be within the confines of a particular group, community, or interpersonal dynamic".
But what is the role of tasks in D/s? Are they necessary or just busy work for the submissive?
The validity of online life.
Understanding and combating sub frenzy.
Bondage in a long-distance dynamic.
Gorean dynamics are largely based upon the tenets proposed in the Gor series of books, the first of which was written and published by John Norman in 1966, however the dynamics themselves vary, just as is typical of any D/s dynamic.
The top five qualities I would look for in a Dom/Master.
In this day and age, is 24/7 truly possible? Are BDSM dynamics moments in time? Or is 24/7 a state of mind?
First, the topic: Does a submissive secretly want to be punished, or does she strive never to be punished?
What is cock worship?
Casts and Braces: What is the draw to this fetish? Is it a mainstream fetish or not?
Just as there are many different types of gags, there are many different emotions that I experience while gagged.
What and why of a protection agreement.
Often in this community, you'll hear bandied about such terms as "sensory deprivation" and "sensation play". But what are they? Are they different, and if so, how? I'm going to attempt to unpack these two terms a little, and elaborate in detail, where in the past, I've mostly only heard vague references.
Three "simple" questions - what is the difference between a sub and a slave; what is the difference between a Dom and a Master; and is a Master always right, even when He's wrong?
Rules for a dynamic
Addressing some of the primary issues in a long distance BDSM relationship.
Dealing with drop
This is a letter I was tasked to write to a vanilla stranger, almost like a message in a bottle, explaining being slave.
Are roles like submission, dominance, switching kinks... roles we choose to play? Or do people choose because they have inherent traits, ingrained within their psyche? Does it differ by role, potentially?
We have a need to be in a community for a variety of reasons.
About gags.
All about figging.
