Focusing on the difficulties that a Sadist faces from social implications and expectations to the risks we take on while we do what we do and how that can cause some difficulties in rationalizing doing what we do.
10/29/22 We discuss using Botanicals in BDSM, including botanicals used for health reasons, safety precautions in BDSM, and the use of many plants, vegetables, herbs, weeds, and spices in giving pain.
The Switch. Adding this component into understanding of the community is often similar to adding a dose of confusion or chaos.
This distinction appears muddled, misunderstood and generalized by a great number of the people that I converse with.
As to the odds of finding a dominant female...
Submissive Rebound is a reaction that occurs in most submissives at some point in their relationship with a Dominant.
If a human being at some point in their childhood becomes the focus of physical and/or sexual abuse does this then turn them into a submissive at some later point in their lives?
All submissives being created as equal or the nature of expressed submission as being of one form to the exclusion or dicardment of any variations or diversity within the nature of that expression.
Submission is an action of personal strength.
Subspace - This term generally is used to describe a moderate to deep trancelike condition experienced by persons in the submissive position in a D/s relationship during interaction with the person in the Dominant position in the relationship.
Achievement of a state of sterility for objects used or reused in BDSM scening is often a poorly understood issue for newcomers into the D/s or BDSM communities.
I will express this from my personal viewpoint. When I view myself as a whole being I consider myself to be 3 distinct parts.
The fostering of hostile malevolence sufficient to inspire a person to violate and betray that which nurtures, sustains and maintains their personal existence and the long term continued existence of their species.
Please take a moment to read the article titled 'Hard Limits' before continuing to read this article.
Monogamy is the condition of having a single mate at one time.
Within 'primarily' the last 2,000 years the practice of naming became intricately attached to providing 'lineage' information across generational lives.
Shame has been used as a control tool for countless centuries. As societies form they create appropriate rules of conduct.
Many of us tend to focus upon the quasi-sexual aspects of 'scening' within the BDSM lifestyle.
The sphere of interpersonal behavior most directly associated with leading up to, substituting for or resulting from genital union.
Considering 24/7 dynamics
One of the most overlooked aspects of a long term D/s full time relationship is the orientation of the partner's within the relationship 'toward' each other. D/s relationships tend to be very intimately involved and often present unique and complex issues.
Self-esteem - to measure or evaluate an unstable dynamic state through material objects, money or perceptions of success within the physical plane.
Scene speech is a language that we develop and use solely in-scene. We reserve this speech to augment and accentuate the atmosphere of the scene and often to heighten the sensory experience for both Dominant and submissive.
Much is said about Safe, Sane and Consensual within the BDSM lifestyle, it has become a cornerstone catch word for living. What isn't being discussed is the necessary evaluation of mental condition that it entails upon all people.
One of the most talked about features of the BDSM community is the existence and usage of the Safe Word or Safe Call or Safe Sign.