Understanding subdrop and dealing with aftercare as a Service Top.
Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1068 Read Count: 1959
Stories by Master James
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Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1068 Read Count: 1959
Categories: How-To > Space and Drop
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1068 Read Count: 1959
[Report This] Published: 02/02/2019 Updated: 02/02/2019
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Categories: How-To > Checklists & Negotiation
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 760 Read Count: 1240
A quick negotiation checklist pre-scene.
Categories: How-To > Checklists & Negotiation
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 760 Read Count: 1240
[Report This] Published: 04/29/2018 Updated: 04/29/2018
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7
Characters: None
Content Notes: Protocol
Series: None
Chapters: 6 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 6938 Read Count: 41281
Charter, rule, contract, and training documents for the House of Cadifor.
Categories: The Lifestyle > 24/7
Characters: None
Content Notes: Protocol
Series: None
Chapters: 6 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 6938 Read Count: 41281
[Report This] Published: 10/24/2015 Updated: 03/21/2016
A sobering reminder about the inherent dangers in what we do by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1136 Read Count: 2177
Accidents happen. This is one of them.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: How-To
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1136 Read Count: 2177
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 03/21/2016
HOW TO TRAIN YOUR DOM: an instruction manual for the desperate submissive. by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1939 Read Count: 6616
Often Dominants need a helping hand, a bit of encouragement, and a nudge in the right direction, from the significant others we call subs.
Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1939 Read Count: 6616
[Report This] Published: 10/23/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Ignoring is a legitimate and often useful tool of behaviour modification that I advocate. by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1494 Read Count: 14133
If the sub likes everything you dish out, and sees it as a game, but hates to be ignored... guess what...? Ignoring isn't abandoning - look at the differences.
Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1494 Read Count: 14133
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
IN DEFENCE OF CAUTION AND DRAMA: a few words for newer Doms and Leaders by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: Dominance > Self Training, The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2264 Read Count: 4195
What not to do for new Doms and how community leaders can handle the arrogant, clueless, and downright dangerous.
Categories: Dominance > Self Training, The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, For Beginners, Lifestyle Info
Series: None
Chapters: 2 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 2264 Read Count: 4195
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
It just keeps on fucking happening, and it hurts my brain. by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:
Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 962 Read Count: 2482
Exploring The Dunning-Kruger effect in BDSM.
Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s, Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 962 Read Count: 2482
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Maybe you're not submissive enough... But that's your problem, not the rest of the worlds. by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:
Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 622 Read Count: 2053
Perception isn't everything, but it's something.
Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 622 Read Count: 2053
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
MY DICK DOESNT JUST MAGICALLY SLIP OUT: Some stuff that needs to be said about Photography, Rope, Play, and Sex. by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 877 Read Count: 2018
Rules I learned by observing people I respect as photographers, riggers, and tops.
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: For Beginners, General
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 877 Read Count: 2018
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:
Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1360 Read Count: 2588
How I approach the internal workings of a D/S relationship and the training of a Submissive.
Categories: Dominance > Training a submissive
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1360 Read Count: 2588
[Report This] Published: 10/24/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Checklists & Negotiation
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To, Safety, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 708 Read Count: 2072
This is the Play Table that I compiled and use in my House.
Categories: How-To > Checklists & Negotiation
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, How-To, Safety, SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 708 Read Count: 2072
[Report This] Published: 10/24/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Personal Responsibility Vs Consent Crusaders is NOT a zero sum game. by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
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Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent, The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1319 Read Count: 2035
There are two viewpoints on personal safty in the lifestyle, but they aren't mutualy exclusive, no matter what some claim.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent, The Lifestyle > Safe, Sane Risk Management
Characters: None
Content Notes: SSC/RACK
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1319 Read Count: 2035
[Report This] Published: 10/23/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:
Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1290 Read Count: 1937
"Hey I'm a Dominant, you're a submissive. If you consensually hand power over to me, we can both play our respective roles productively."
Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1290 Read Count: 1937
[Report This] Published: 10/23/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 690 Read Count: 2016
We as a rope community keep educating both rope tops and bottoms.
Categories: How-To > Doing the Kinky Safely > Getting Knotty
Characters: None
Content Notes: None
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 690 Read Count: 2016
[Report This] Published: 10/23/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
You can call yourself whatever you want. Just don't expect me to believe you. by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:
Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 745 Read Count: 1673
Concerning the the self appointed title of submissive.
Categories: Submission
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 745 Read Count: 1673
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/11/2015
Summary:
Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1060 Read Count: 3329
It's not all beer and skittles being a Dom.
Categories: Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1060 Read Count: 3329
[Report This] Published: 10/23/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:
Categories: Submission > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 274 Read Count: 1859
What a submissive should expect.
Categories: Submission > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 274 Read Count: 1859
[Report This] Published: 10/23/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:
Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 188 Read Count: 1848
A few simple rules.
Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 188 Read Count: 1848
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 608 Read Count: 2385
Since the BDSM community is so diverse a subculture, are there people part of the BDSM culture that you(others) see as deviant?
Categories: The Lifestyle > YOU in the Lifestyle
Characters: None
Content Notes: General, Philosophy
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 608 Read Count: 2385
[Report This] Published: 10/23/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
What I actually believe about consent. From my own lips. by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:
Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1564 Read Count: 1545
I believe positive and responsible consent education is a constructive and effective tool to combat the sheer volume of occurrences of rape.
Categories: The Lifestyle > Consent
Characters: None
Content Notes: Safety
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1564 Read Count: 1545
[Report This] Published: 10/23/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:
Categories: How-To > Protocol, Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1030 Read Count: 2507
Defining the protocol of the end M/s relationship through either death or uncollaring.
Categories: How-To > Protocol, Dominance
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1030 Read Count: 2507
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:
Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 679 Read Count: 1864
Thoughts on being a good Dominant
Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 679 Read Count: 1864
[Report This] Published: 10/24/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Principles and Expectations of a submissive entering into a D/s relationship by Master James Rated: Conservative [Reviews - 0]
Summary:
Categories: Submission > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 569 Read Count: 1839
D/s isn't easy, but it is rewarding. Know what you're getting into.
Categories: Submission > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 569 Read Count: 1839
[Report This] Published: 10/23/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015
Summary:
Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1326 Read Count: 2643
A few areas to think about as Dominants seek to hone themselves into even better versions of themselves
Categories: Dominance > Self Training
Characters: None
Content Notes: D/s-M/s
Series: None
Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
Completed: Yes Word count: 1326 Read Count: 2643
[Report This] Published: 10/22/2015 Updated: 11/04/2015