Sometimes a Top needs to stop a scene.
Categories: How-To > Before You Begin
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Content Notes: How-To
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Chapters: 1 Table of Contents
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Sometimes a Top needs to stop a scene.
A broader understanding of what "Service" means is in order.
What is a metatalk and what is the purpose of them?
How to help a vanilla boyfriend turn into a Dominant.
What and why are maintenance spankings given?
I was curious how one makes sure rape doesn't happen in a D/s relationship.
You don't get to submit - or dominate - only when you're in the mood.
A few tips to keep the spark alive and soothing for when you Dom is stressed.
Giving The Silent Treatment.
If he sounds too perfect online, ask some questions.
All we ever hear about are shitty Doms, fake Doms, predatory Doms. There are some pretty crummy subs out there, too.
"What are some good questions to ask a prospective Dom to help spot the fakes and the predators?"
How D/s relationships deal with that pesky thing called "the real world."
How to soothe a submissive's anxiety attacks.
What makes punishment a punishment and not abuse?
What's the difference between a sadist and a BDSM sadist.
Doms explaining themselves.
The Pygmalion Syndrome
The difference between Punishment and Funishment
Aftercare can take many forms.
Let's talk a bit about rewards
An explanation of pain calibration