Basic information about BDSM for legal and law inforcement in the liht of recent publicity and opening viewpoints concerning BDSM.
There has been discussion about whether or not living in a 24/7 relationship means that play is not as important as a casual or part time D/s connection.
The question of whether or not BDSM is all about sex is one that often comes up on discussion boards, forums and in general conversation.
Kim discusses what a submissive is and does.
Alternative Punishments That Work
If the sub likes everything you dish out, and sees it as a game, but hates to be ignored... guess what...? Ignoring isn't abandoning - look at the differences.
What not to do for new Doms and how community leaders can handle the arrogant, clueless, and downright dangerous.
Exploring The Dunning-Kruger effect in BDSM.
An Extremely Thorough Play Checklist
If someone isn't directly giving me consent, then there is no consent in my opinion.
Are you ready to have everything you think you are, torn to shreds by everything you will become?
"i am really trying to learn how to be more dominant "what do i do?
Submission is submission. Dominance is dominance. It's an exchange of power between two people.
One of the most forbidden things in my power dynamic is to permit or encourage the illusion that he has any form of control or authority that he does not actually have.
A brief explanation of a BDSM contract and a template of one.
Fire whips, while exciting, are very dangerous and I would never recommend using them in a public D/s scene because there are so many variables that can go wrong. That being said I will try to help as best I can.
Contracts I.
Basics of Water Sports
Guidelines for establishing household protocols and examples.
Are D-types control freaks? Is it a power trip? Is being a control freak a lack of trust issue or something else? Can S-types be control freak? How does being in control and being a control freak differ? Can you be a dominant personality and not want to have control?
Questions for a submissive/bottom before a scene.
Many profoundly submissive women come to us saying that their master does not control them enough
Suggestions on how to let your lover know you are "kinky." From the D/s Lighthouse Discussion series.
Several excellent questions to help get to know a potential problem.
A crop is easy to use and you can wield it more safely and with much less skill than the other toys.